Obsessed with sleeping with lots of women

I can relate to your struggle so I sympathize, only problem is I do not have a girlfriend or a wife never had sex either. I only have myself to blame for all of this.
I can see why you view all other women out of bounds because if I am being honest I feel as if all women are out of bounds for me as alas, I always feel extremely shy and nervous when I am around the opposite sex. When they are in my vicinity I start to sweat, when they complement me I hide my face because I blush and I will get rock hard if they ever touch me (even shaking hands with a woman is enough to me hard.) I can also relate to what you say when you say about finding lots of different women extremely attractive, In all honesty I feel the same way. I find Lots of different types of women attractive but Unlike you I am willing to settle for infrequent and vanilla sex just to have children with one and constantly feel her skin on mine. Even if it's just hand-holding It's more than enough for me. Yes I do think this has to do with being a sex addict. I am a recovering porn addict in all honesty. But In many ways I feel as if I am a sex addict. I want to be with a woman but I am too shy to even talk to one to begin with. But I hope we can Privately message each other about this. It's okay if you don't want to though, A lot of time for me, talking about my struggles helps me.

 

Is she a good girlfriend though? Are you willing to cheat on her or leave her just for more sex? Have you tried telling her some of your kinks and your desire for more frequent sex (I wouldn't mention your desire to fuck girls of all types because you could piss her off or make her insecure. It's like her saying she wants to fuck other men of all types)? Overall, depending on how decent your girlfriend is, I'd say it's just the porn addiction talking.

 

I agree with others here in that it’s porn that’s making you want to be polygynous. That isn’t healthy behaviour for a man of today, or at least any man of today who respects himself and wants to build a family.

Just be grateful you have a girlfriend who loves you and respects you - if you have such a woman by your side, why would you ever want to risk that just to get a few more notches on your bedpost? Shagging lots of women is not cool, big or clever, it just shows you’re a commitmentphobe and don’t have any respect for women. I’m sure the real you isn’t like that - prove me right and enjoy every moment you spend with your lady love.

 

Holy shit man.... just join a dating app like tinder find a woman hang out with her etc...
If you are good looking enough you'll eventually find one, I was like you at the beginning but after I've hang out with 9 women and stopped after I've started a serious relation with one I'm okay now