Ok i fuck her 20 minutes at least but that is better than 5 minutes no???

I was looking at extreme porn for 5 years, I wasnt able to cum fucking a girl in last 7 years. Here is the succes story:

I havent looked on porn in three or four months, but i had about 3 relapses in that time. I have jerked about 2 times a week for this four months.

I havent looked on porn for at least 2 weeks (this was the last little relaps i had) before i met this girl. I was quite sure it is gonna end up in bed, but it was slow process from meeting her to bed, it took me a week. This whole week i havent fapped. Then when we took of our clothes my erection died since i was nervous about another bad sex. I told her i am always nervous first time, then we continued kissing while she was stroking me and after 4-5 minutes erection came back. I started fucking her and told her right away it takes me very long to cum. After 15 minutes I gave up, i told her im not gonna cum today. This was after not jerking 7 days!!! She was a little dissapointed but very nice to me. She went to bathroom and i started wanking )))) when she came back i told her to come and finish me.

Ok next time, knowing that she doesnt expect anything but a boner i was calmer. I fucked her twice succesfully ( it was about 20 minutes first time, 5 minutes second time). Since then we have great sex usually about 20 minutes long. Last time I was able to fuck her succesfully three times in two hours ( it was about 20, 20 and 30 minutes sex).

Learn to fuck really good to make the sex interesting so u dont do 20 minutes just one angle one speed. Find a girl who is patient in the beggining and loves when you fuck her for half an hour, ofcourse u sometimes even stop for a minute just resting inside of her )) She is 28 and she is having the best sex of her life with me, who didnt even know if Im ever gonna have good sex in my life. Were having sex like 2 times a day for last two weeks.

The problem with the performance has two parts : first the actual damage in the brain caused by porn bombarding it with excitement molecules. Second is the fear of not performing again. Its hard to overcome any of those. After two weeks i still sometimes have thoughts i just cannot cum this time. Then i realize that she can take the pounding almost forever and i say to myself "girl im gonna fuck you till i cum no matter if you like it " and this thought gets rid of the mental aspect and i cum in no time.

Im sorry you had to read the word "cum" so many times