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On hardmode since mid September 2018

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Kligor, Mar 13, 2020.

  1. Kligor

    Kligor Fapstronaut

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    I started nofap year and half ago,during that time i had might 10 relapses in total.My best streak was 269 days no PMO,and right now i m on streak day 32 no PMO.

    I started to PMO when i was young(like most of us).I was 12 years old when i started PMO,i remember i would PMO 3-5 times everyday.When i was 17 years old i really felt that PMO make me much tired and drain me,at that time i really started to feel bad sides of PMO and i got a decision to leave porn and masturbation forever.

    Why i started nofap?Because i was sure i will got rid of weird fetish.
    But why i continue nofap and use nofap as lifestyle?Because i realize i m much better person,family member,friend,much better version of myself.

    I think i never had a PIED,but my erections are better thyat ever.Even if i m still virgin and have no gf,i have strong erections just when i talk with girls(of course no sexualy thinking).

    What is my conclusion about this?Porn industry wants to show the people that porn is normal thing,why?Because they want to earn money on us.That is manipulation.
    Porn is maded to make man or women weak,when someone is weak,manipulation is easier.This world needs weak people,because someone can control them.
    Just remember porn is a trap and masturbation too(in my case M too).PMO never helped anyone.

    What benefits have i received during this 540+ days on hardmode?I will write it down here.

    1.More energy-Right now i m going on job 10 days in a row without free day,yes i m little tired but nothing serious.Old me will pass away in first 6 days without pause.(If someone is wonder why i going 10 days to job in a row it is because everyday on job is paid,but if you take free day then not,why to not get money if i can?)
    2.Better sense of humor-I was always funny and can make people laugh,but no it is another story.Even without trying most people give me smile.
    3.I eat much less-Don't get me wrong here,i eat much less because i really very rare feel hunger.Old me will eat everything at his way.
    4.I can sleep even 4 hours and be rested-Old me was tired even after sleeping 8 hours and doing nothing all the day.
    5.This one i love to much,shiny eyes/alive eyes-That is something what most people(fap people)don't have.Old me was looking like a heroine addict.
    6.Women attention-For me this works,but i really don't trying to find a girlfrind.At work women almost always talk to me first,sit next to me bla bla..
    7.Thicker beard and body hair-Someone will told me this is because i m 19 years old,yes that have connection,but in last year and a half i got more hair than in my whole puberty.
    8.Happy almost all the times-Old me was almost angry all the times because of my fails.
    9.Big increase in motivation-Old me was just thinking long long he can sleep.Now i have different plans.
    10.Better skin looking and less acne-Old me was not having much acne but my skin my much better.
    11.More manly-When i look at pictures when i still PMO up to 5 times at days and now,old me looks me little feminazed.
    12.I learned to keep my cool-Old me was having much lack of this.
    13.Now i need much less to be happy.
    14.People respect me much more now-For some reason it is true.
    15.More disciplined-Old me doesn't even know what that means.
    16.More honest-It feels good ehen i have nothing to hide.
    17.More confident-When i got to job and see all of that dark circles,no humor,no patience at all,then i know i have meet a chronic fapman.I felt more confident because i m different.
    18.More patient-Old me has a lack of this.
    19.Less dark circles-Old was having big dark circles,now it is reduced.
    20.Now i view womes as a friend,living beings-Old me was just looking them for some sexy favor.
    21.Less fear to try new trings-I m more comfortable to try new things,old me almost never do that.
    22.Music sounds better.
    23.Deeper voice.
    24.No brain fog.
    25.More immune to cold temperatures.
    26.Harder to get sick,better immune system.
    27.Much less sweating.

    I might have forgot to mention some benefit,but not matter.What have changed since nofap?I got a job,started wet shaving,started to mowing the grass(private job),saving more money.Started to love that i m alive.

    Remember one people,PMO never helped anyone!
     
    Last edited: Mar 13, 2020
  2. That helped me I was about to fap but the feeling is gone. Thank you
     
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  3. ayanaambe115

    ayanaambe115 Fapstronaut

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    Wow congratulations. Your post is educative. Thank you. Keep truckin; you are too near to taste the fruit.
     
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  4. mikkyyy

    mikkyyy New Fapstronaut

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    Truly your words are educative and inspiring.thank you
     
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  5. Nice job mate! Well done hero. Keep it up champ
     
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  6. Jeremi

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    that's a hell lot of benefits. That's why we should keep going man!
     
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  7. Raven King

    Raven King Fapstronaut

    Congratulations on your new life! Thanks for sharing!
     
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  8. PowerfulSRE

    PowerfulSRE Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for sharing mate. Very inspiring! I'm glad you managed to escape PMO prison. Wish you good luck in all your future endeavors!
     
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  9. Fysiker

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    Your post really
    Your post really give me motivation for no pmo.I wish I could achieve it.
     
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  10. LekkerPotjie

    LekkerPotjie Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for this! The more I read stories like these, the more motivated I am and wonder why I didn't start this sooner!
     
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  11. Nick:3

    Nick:3 Fapstronaut

    I can relate to those benefits so much, right now I got in to the trap of PMOing again, but yeah I went over a year before, and I can definetely feel the difference, can't wait to get those benefits back!
     
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  12. kamoken

    kamoken New Fapstronaut

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    Great post, do the urges/fantasies stop at some point?
    Are you still attracted to fucked up shit you were before nofap?
     
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  13. Kligor

    Kligor Fapstronaut

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    Thank you buddy,yes urges are easier to control how time is going forward.
    I m still attracted to same shits like before.But not everyone is same,i don't want for anyone to lose hope,but in my case i didn't healed that even after 1.5 year+ of hardmode.
    All the best people!
     
  14. Mandi88

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    [QUOTE = "Kligor, post: 2461778, member: 362944"] Comencé nofap hace un año y medio, durante ese tiempo tuve 10 recaídas en total. Mi mejor racha fue de 269 días sin PMO, y ahora estoy en día de racha 32 sin PMO.

    Empecé a PMO cuando era joven (como la mayoría de nosotros). Tenía 12 años cuando comencé PMO, recuerdo que haría PMO 3-5 veces al día. Cuando tenía 17 años realmente sentí que PMO me hizo mucho cansado y agotarme, en ese momento realmente comencé a sentirme mal con PMO y decidí dejar el porno y la masturbación para siempre.

    ¿Por qué empecé nofap? Porque estaba seguro de que me libraría de los fetiches raros.
    ¿Pero por qué sigo nofap y uso nofap como estilo de vida? Porque me doy cuenta de que soy mucho mejor persona, familiar, amigo, una versión mucho mejor de mí mismo.

    Creo que nunca tuve un PIED, pero mis erecciones son mejores que nunca. Incluso si aún soy virgen y no tengo novia, tengo erecciones fuertes justo cuando hablo con chicas (por supuesto, no tengo pensamientos sexuales).

    ¿Cuál es mi conclusión sobre esto? La industria del porno quiere mostrarle a la gente que la pornografía es algo normal, ¿por qué? Porque quieren ganar dinero con nosotros. Eso es manipulación.
    La pornografía está diseñada para debilitar a hombres o mujeres, cuando alguien es débil, la manipulación es más fácil. Este mundo necesita personas débiles, porque alguien puede controlarlas.
    Solo recuerda que la pornografía también es una trampa y la masturbación (en mi caso, M también) .PMO nunca ayudó a nadie.

    ¿Qué beneficios he recibido durante estos más de 540 días en hardmode? Lo escribiré aquí.

    1.More energy-Right now i m going on job 10 days in a row without free day,yes i m little tired but nothing serious.Old me will pass away in first 6 days without pause.(If someone is wonder why i going 10 days to job in a row it is because everyday on job is paid,but if you take free day then not,why to not get money if i can?)
    2.Better sense of humor-I was always funny and can make people laugh,but no it is another story.Even without trying most people give me smile.
    3.I eat much less-Don't get me wrong here,i eat much less because i really very rare feel hunger.Old me will eat everything at his way.
    4.I can sleep even 4 hours and be rested-Old me was tired even after sleeping 8 hours and doing nothing all the day.
    5.Este me encanta mucho, ojos brillantes / ojos vivos: eso es algo que la mayoría de las personas (personas fap) no tienen. Viejo me parecía un adicto a la heroína.
    6. Atención de las mujeres: para mí esto funciona, pero realmente no trato de encontrar una novia. En el trabajo, las mujeres casi siempre me hablan primero, siéntate a mi lado bla bla ...
    7. Barba más gruesa y vello corporal: alguien me dijo que esto se debe a que tengo 19 años, sí, eso tiene conexión, pero en el último año y medio tuve más cabello que en toda mi pubertad.
    8. Feliz casi todas las veces. El viejo yo estaba casi enojado todas las veces debido a mis fallas.
    9. Gran aumento de la motivación: el viejo yo solo pensaba que podía dormir mucho tiempo. Ahora tengo diferentes planes.
    10. Mejor aspecto de la piel y menos acné. El viejo yo no tenía mucho acné, pero mi piel estaba mucho mejor.
    11.Más varonil: cuando miro fotos cuando todavía hago PMO hasta 5 veces por día y ahora, mi viejo me parece un poco feminado.
    12. Aprendí a mantenerme tranquilo. A mi viejo me faltaba mucho.
    13. Ahora necesito mucho menos para ser feliz.
    14. La gente me respeta mucho más ahora. Por alguna razón es verdad.
    15. Más disciplinado: el viejo yo ni siquiera sabe lo que eso significa.
    16.Más honesto: se siente bien cuando no tengo nada que ocultar.
    17.Más confianza: cuando llegué al trabajo y vi todas esas ojeras, sin humor, sin paciencia, sé que he conocido a un fapman crónico. Me sentí más seguro porque soy diferente.
    18. Más paciente-viejo me falta esto.
    19. Menos círculos oscuros: Old tenía círculos oscuros grandes, ahora se reduce.
    20.Ahora veo a las mujeres como un amigo, seres vivos. El viejo yo solo las estaba buscando por algún favor sexy.
    21. Menos miedo a probar nuevos trucos: me siento más cómodo para probar cosas nuevas, mi viejo casi nunca hace eso.
    22. La música suena mejor.
    23. Voz más profunda.
    24.No hay niebla cerebral.
    25. Más inmune a las bajas temperaturas.
    26. Más difícil de enfermar, mejor sistema inmunológico.
    27. Mucho menos sudor.

    Podría haber olvidado mencionar algunos beneficios, pero no importa. ¿Qué ha cambiado desde nofap? Conseguí un trabajo, comencé a afeitarme en seco, comencé a cortar el pasto (trabajo privado), ahorrando más dinero. Comencé a amar que estoy vivo.

    Recuerda a una persona, ¡PMO nunca ayudó a nadie! [/ QUOTE]
    from when will your eyes start to shine? I look forward to that, I'm just going for day 49
     
  15. Zexiant

    Zexiant Fapstronaut
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    Thanks,
    This post really inspired and motivated me.
     
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  16. Congratulations :) keep up the good work.
     
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