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On Understanding Women

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Deleted Account, Oct 12, 2021.

  1. And men for that matter. Face their nature and your own. Rise above with morals all you want, at the root level this is what we are. The relevant chunk is about three minutes long and starts at 41:06.

     
  2. Vanquisher12

    Vanquisher12 Fapstronaut

    It's pitiful the way some women would force their devoted partner to listen to them sleep with someone else and allow themselves to be humiliated for their own pleasure, blackmailing them with their own love, all for degenerate hedonism. To be fair, their boyfriends should have had more self-respect and just left them, but the fact that some women would still do this is just morally wrong. I imagine there are also some men who will behave like this, but it's clear this situation more often happens with the girl as the perpetrator, given how heavily it is fantasised in porn.

    Fortunately not all girls are drawn to bad boy betas, just those emotionally immature, insecure and unintelligent women who think danger is somehow 'masculine' and 'sexy', when at the end of the day it's just foolhardy. Knievel was lucky to live as long as he did (and 69 is still quite young to die nowadays), and the majority of bad boy betas who engage in such idiotic behaviour die far younger, because in their arrogance they become overconfident, and with overconfidence comes the ability to crash and burn, often literally. Perhaps that is fortunate given their lack of respect toward anyone but themselves, for then the damage they inflict on the rest of the world by their actions and the vile offspring they spawn is limited by their shorter life expectancy.

    And people with this feeble mindset are the reason why society's still messed-up after upwards of 10,000 years. If everyone followed their conscience, resisted base urges when they are not necessary and did what their higher thinking told them to, the world would be a far better place.

    Everyone has a choice - to follow their degenerate id, or use their ego, a gift that no other species has, to do what is right. Everyone who does the right thing is making the world a better place with every good, kind and respectful act they perform, while those who make the wrong choices for their own selfish ends are weaklings and embarrassments to humanity.

    The real lesson to learn here is to set an example to your woman by respecting both yourself and others, and if she fails to do the same, she is not worth your love, and can go and join the other wretches who failed to master inner strength. By all means try to help her, but it's no good trying to help someone who will not help themselves.
     
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  3. This is the clever reframing of a constructionist. 10,000 years worth of experience suggests an underlying reality. Yeah you’ve got a choice. Everyone does. But deny the context in which that choice is made at your own peril.
     
  4. Vanquisher12

    Vanquisher12 Fapstronaut

    In this context both candidate males are betas, just different kinds - the bad boy beta who thinks he's the shit but is just a reckless, irresponsible idiot, and the nice guy beta who hasn't developed enough of a backbone yet. Maybe the woman is bored of the nice guy beta, but she always has the choice of looking for a good guy that also has inner strength (thereby respecting herself), and instead of cuckolding the nice guy beta in his full knowledge, she should simply say that their relationship is not working out and that it's time they moved on (thereby respecting others). Cheating without your partner's knowledge alone is for cowards, and actively manipulating a harmless, well-intentioned person into letting you cheat on them is abominable.

    Morality should never come second to context, for morality is the light that guides the human species through the darkness of life. It's easy to extinguish, but once it's out, it's very difficult to light it again, and so another individual is lost to wretched self-obsession.

    I do not spend my existence here preaching for the fun of it, I do so to help people understand and realise the right way to behave, simply because it's the right thing to do.
     
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  5. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    In my experience if you are able to understand and live at peace with your own emotions then you can understand women better.
     
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  6. Your missing my point is all. I am not holding Evel up as an example to follow, I just think the situation reflects the underlying reality of the human sex drive. There isn't a moral code on earth that can change that.
     
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  7. Vanquisher12

    Vanquisher12 Fapstronaut

    I’m pleased to hear you do agree with me about the immorality of Evel and some of the women who slept with him, but I respectfully disagree with you with regards to the human sex drive. One always has a choice as to whether to seduce someone (or be seduced) or not, through a mixture of self-respect, self-control and self-discipline. I certainly know when my sex drive is stimulated, my eyes can be drawn to hot totty as much as the next man, but I am able to restrain myself with the knowledge that a hot girl isn’t always a good girl (and rarely is when wearing a revealing outfit), and thus is not a suitable partner for me.

    Perhaps I have a sex drive that is weaker than that of other men, but I still think it’s certainly possible to keep a hold on the urge to have sex, just as it’s definitely possible to resist the urge to PMO. Both rely upon the same instinctive behaviour and both can thus be controlled in the same way.
     
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  8. The distinction is between the drive itself and how each one of us relates to that drive. Sounds like you get that.
     
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