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Out of control

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Deleted Account, Sep 8, 2021.

  1. Sep 8, 2021 #1
    Deleted Account

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    Stuck between a rock and a hard place. Really looking for a steady job but stuck in a zone where there is a large gap in my employment and it's hard to get noticed which is understandable but troublesome. I am finding myself on the lonely path of life right now, ready to make an effort to find companionship but broke as fuck and not able to support the relationship. I've been expressing my sexual frustration by watching and binging on hardcore pornography for hours on end and its starting to spiral out of control. It's just taking all the passion away from living a day to day life and its depressing. I haven't relapsed this hard in months...
     
    Deleted Account, Sep 8, 2021
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  2. Sep 8, 2021 #2
    Julian Baker

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    That sounds tough and my heart and life experiences are with you on many points, but at the same time you know what the answer is. Gotta push harder to find that job, maybe even if it's doing something your heart isn't 100% set on, just for the interim?

    I'mn working and studying from home these days and I live alone, so I fully appreciate how hard it is to have so much freedom for PMO. It takes a lot of extra effort, from where I'm sitting.

    Hope you find the push to just get out start reversing your fortunes.

    Best of luck!
     
    Julian Baker, Sep 8, 2021
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  3. Sep 8, 2021 #3
    TMustStopPornConsumption

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    @ResetButton I have taught myself to get ANGRY at the producers and profiteers of hard core pornography. WE are the product especially when it's free content. Anyway that helped me to learn to get angry but now I'm finding other stuff that does the same trick. i.e. Women's Beach wrestling on youtube. Fuckin algorithm.
     
    TMustStopPornConsumption, Sep 8, 2021
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  4. Sep 11, 2021 #4
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    Have you tried internship opportunities or trainings? Also, it might seem like it however it’s not always necessary to have money to start out a relationship with someone! I think there are ways to get around that! You can compensate in other ways by doing things for your partner, being there for them, spending time with them at your or their home after getting to know each other!
     
    Deleted Account, Sep 11, 2021
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