Personal Experience Day 121 - Will the effects go further than this?

I started november 1st, and made it! Shall I go further or?

My personal experience next to the productivity boost and alpha stuff, is that my view towards women has changed in an enormous way. I have also deleted social media from my phone, so the effects of woman stimulation were totally gone for the past 120 days, because if you do have instagram, you get to see so many awfully beautiful women that ruïn your hardmode, delay your progression to becoming a medieval man again.

Women aren't gods anymore
When I see women, I first of all don't see them as much as a god, and at the same time I do. I know that I don't need sex, I don't need women, and my life is already awesome without them, so my behaviour towards women is also that way, out of abundance, not wasting time on texting girls or talking to girls. I'm creating huge wealth in my chamber, working my ass of without that many friends, because there aren't many disciplined people around me, no one that I know.

The biggest change after 121 days
But at the same time, some women just make me go mad. I just had my first driving course (I'm 17), and we have to pick up another girl that drives after me, and she is exactly my age, and only the way she looked at me and laughed about my joke made me go crazy afterwards, just the fact that she showed a little bit of interest in the form of an emotion, laughing about something that came from my source. I just get a hard one all the time when I only think about this one silly moment that didn't even matter, which I would be totally insensitive for if it were 121 days ago, totally unbothered by any girl because I had my porn and my huge amount of favorite pornstars where I shouldn't have started writing about just now because their heads are popping up in front of me. But this energy, I have never felt before and it feels amazing.

Woman Energy
The effects that a woman has on my body and mind are incredible. I feel all the fucking energy of new women, especially of my age, because I am never exposed to any novel women anymore since I just study and study and study isolated from any source of stimulation, no youtube, no porn, no social media, no sugar, almost no friends which I'd like to have more of, aren't around me as much. I have detoxed from society a lot, a lot a lot, and therefore I'm sensitized for everything within it again.

This is the reason why you want to continue nofap, but while on nofap also quit social media! Use a webblocker and don't go out that much if you want to do it hardmode and reach 120, because I've had many times I just wanted to do it, but couldn't thanks to the blocker. The winners play it smart, so play it smart and win big. I can help you, and am happy to help you if you send me a message .

Total beast full of sexual energy
This title is as never before, because now man, I'm a total beast full of sexual energy, putting it into productivity and creativity in order to control it. If I see one new girl, I look at her and I look at her good in this way that you feel like you're the man, and she the woman (this doesn't work yet on fat ugly women that have no self-discipline, neither does it work on dumb women who I can recognize by the way they dress themselves and the way they look out of their eyes). But the energy that I feel when a new girl comes along that looks good, I can not describe LIFE in words in this forum, you have to feel it for yourself and try it. But the energy is everything we're existing out of, and man, if you start to feel the real energy of attraction to a woman again, the REAL REAL stuff that might be further than where I am, already by just some silly words! Imagine how it'll be when you have real sexual contact with that same women, even if it's just kissing, and that you feel like a true man again, and feel her woman energy and are not afraid to tell her what you think about her appearance.

Flatline in january and the consequences
I by the way remember that at 1st of january, new year, I had this girl totally after me at night at the party, working her ass off to get my attention, while I was not reacting at all, just enough because I was telling myself I should (thanks mr fucking flatline haha). You know this feeling that a girl keeps touching everything from you, and you don't feel anything more than lack of arousal? She did the most a girl can do, without destroying her self value in the flirting process. But man, I wasn't feeling anything, she kissed my neck and more, I could have probably gone very sexual, but this flatline was totally against me, unabling me to feel motivated and give this girl what she was asking for so badly. Now I am finally motivated to contact her, go out with her, after all that time that I could not feel more than huge amounts of horseshit when looking at her, but I don't have her contacts, and no social media, and that's the sacrifice guys, you will miss on opportunities when you're going into this game!

Will the effects become more extreme after 120?
But now is this question for you, that I do not know the answer to. How shall I go further, how would you go further? Should I go behind the girls now, and get stimulated fully by their energy, possibly weakening my productivity and motivation for normal things? Or should I aim further? Will the effects possibly become more extreme? Because if, I'm going to go for it. And if not, what should I then do?

I'm open to new contacts
I just joined this community a few minutes ago, because I didn't find myself worthy enough to call a fapstronaut without 120 days. Pretty irrational I would say, because after 30 days you've already gone through one of the har-dest parts! But I'd like to stay in touch with people, I don't have many friends, again, because I got so disciplined to pursue my career and maximize self expression in life.

If anyone, even one person, is likeminded like me, going into this nofap stuff, or like me pursuing a career as dentist or somewhat around it, or looking to start up his own business, investing in real estate, man. We can inspire each other, create wisdom and help each other growing. I'm not available 24/7 on this forum, because I got awesome goals to pursue like becoming multi millionaire, approaching women in daylight and reading cool books about all scales. But if you're also into this, bettering yourself, quiting porn but not only that, also other stuff like getting rid of addictions (sugar, netflix, gaming, music, salt, stimulation in overall) then you're the man I'm looking for. I've been through them all, and I'm going hard. Look at this way I'm talking only, I just feel good about myself more than ever before, that's no arrogance, that's self love that helps you reach out to 10X goals, and have the right mindset that you need to have in order to make it reality.

Send me a message
So send me a message if you like to inspire each other, help each other through this nofap experience that's 100% real and I didn't believe exist, and if you want to become succesful too, in life but also financially haha. If you have the possibility to develop yourself, you have the full potential to become anything you want, beyond your beliefsystem. You just need the right people, the right circle of influence . And that's exactly why I came here, to meet likeminded people, even on the internet. So write me and I can send you a cool e-book through mail about how to get rich. Use your sexual energy to produce huge amounts of work, like Sigmund Freud did.

Thanks,

QuintenB

 

I would suggest you first go date at least 50 women depending on your state of life, age and environment. But you want to have a frame of reference before going deep into something with one woman. Because over 50% of relationships divorce in time! This is because most people fall in love out of scarcity. Their mind fucks them in this way that they believe they're in love with the person, when it's actually the reproduction factor that's playing the game. When you're dating out of abundance and knowledge, you know what kind of woman you like because you have met many, and you know what kind of women you shouldn't date, you get knowledge and wisdom. Knowing who you should date and who you shouldn't date. You'll also see after dating at least a few depending on your situation, that your taste will change, you will develop in the love game, and that's crucial for obtaining a healthy relationship that does last. Because everyone who says man I just want a relationships is not standing still with the risk they're taking; The huge loss of investment and energy that you've wasted when you're going apart from a person. You know planning to get into a relationship is already out of scarcity, you're planning something, which means you'll likely end up with less quality because you want it at one specific time.

Go for the girls, at least 5 I would suggest if you're somewhat 40+-, if you're in 20-30 go for at least 30 more to build a good compound of experience to make the right meaningful decision out of, the true woman that fits your personality that will also grow when you come into contact with women on this level, because it's another level, an emotional level that women provide that men don't have as much. They have the emotional motor of 1-10, we compared have 1-3. So you will emotionally develop a lot when you start meeting women, they always talk like 'I feel like this and that, I felt and I thought'. There's a difference between the way men and women think and feel, and there you'll firstly need to be experienced with in order to build a succesful relationship for life, untill death seperates you (instead of a bitter end where you divorce at 60). I'd love to help with nofap too because I see that's going not too fluently too which is understandable. The strategy I created made me able to go to 121 at a young hormonal age and continue with it.

 

HERE the real wisdom is
You can't pursue a goal with tips and tricks. These are just the easiest for people to communicate. But after all they only work for the disciplined who have a foundation, who have the basic knowledge or skills to build out of. That's the trick and tips for, to level up. If you don't have the compound, which you most likely don't have, then these tricks won't be enough for you. You can delete all stimulations in particular, but if you then don't have any plan for your extra free time, you're doomed.

That's where you fapstronauts most likely fail in, you fail to see the big picture of life. It's all including, not just one little thing that you can maintain. You can't maintain a garden when the area around it is becoming a desert slowly. If you don't have the right way of living, then that way of living will 100% flow back to nofap. Because NOFAP is a reflection from your succes in life as person. And there are many different ways to become succesful and there are many good ways to be, so there's not just one way to live, there are so many beautiful ways to live.

But just know that, it's all about the big picture. If you are on nofap but outside of that are not working on your career, not keeping yourself busy, still eating cookies watching tv, still becoming drunk, man, when you're in these states of mind, you're in the most vulnerable state to fall back.

Fuck tips and tricks, even this won't work. Just like telling the number 1 to move his ass, I can't tell you what to do, because you're the concept of your brain, the production of it. So only your intelligence and awareness can help improving yourself, of course there are other things but these are fundamental. Recognize your environmental influence on you, change your environment, change your brain, change your identity, do the work.

Behind this is just intelligence and self consciousness, no ego, fuck the ego and love the ego at the same time. Love yourself and be aware of the fact that you're after all not as real as you feel, that you're not independent, not The organism in your body, but part of the organism. You don't decide about all the functions your body does, seeing, hearing, creating images of the world and beliefsystems in it, creating an illusion of your own ego in order to survive in this cruel world. After all you're just a concept your brain needs and creates to handle the wheel, but therefore doesn't mean you're in charge. The wind and the sea is deciding what will happen to you, and that is your destiny. When you have insight with your intelligence and awareness of yourself and the sea around you, you can see ways to sail the sea a better way, to have some influence on the course of your compass.

That compass is The thing that you keep changing and changing, making the course more sharp into the right direction. But first for that, you need to see the wide horizon in order to handle the wheel.

Sorry, there's no 1 way to it. Your success is totally depending on who you meet, your environmental influence and genetics. But you have the power to change your environment and change yourself. Starting with changing your habits, changing the way you function and feel and think and live in overall.

If you're going into this real, go real, make notes, suck all the information out of this comment and ask for more. This comment was written at 1 am after all, everything in it is based on coincidence and luck, there's so much more to know, that you should know.

If you want to start somewhere, start with changing your habits, by getting the insight and awareness from the information out of the book; Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg and

Change these habits
- stop gaming, stop overstimulation in overall which means sugar, salt, pornography is not enough, set goals, read about keystone habits, write a journal, write an agenda, meditate, take cold showers, work out, read, monotask, work on yourself overall. It won't happen by night, if you want to become a strong person it takes time. It took me relatively short to implement all this within 1 year, but I'm young and adapt quick man. If you're older it can take longer to change rooted behaviours, but it is your duty to change. You know have the knowledge, now take the responsibility and make your life awesome.

My tips for nofap are;
- Turn google safesearch on, in every device possible --> filters your searching
- At the same time put openDNS in, blocking all porn sites etc from your internet browser
- Find another way if this doesn't work to block porn from your devices --> do a lot of research on how to do it depending on the kind of device you use.
- Shift your identity. This is a slightly different one, but with motivation and goal setting you're not going to make it. Because motivation for porn is higher when you're anticipating on it, than the motivation to quit. Also the goal doesn't matter if you don't feel the motivation for it. So shift your identity, make the decision that you're a different person now, you don't fap, you're a man, write the affirmation, affect your unconscious beliefsystem, change your mind by repetition of these affirmations, change your identity, change behaviour in a fundamental lasting way!
- Meditate, I do 1 hour a day and experience extreme rest in my mind and body. When I sometimes didn't meditate, I were more likely to fail to my high disciplined lifestyle because I didn't feel the brightness in my mind to think clearly, which leads to onconscious behaviour which many of us function mostly in.
- There comes the follow up of the last one. Be self aware, write your personal journal where you write in every day; your gratitude, goals for life, goals for the day and most importantly; not to do-list where you tell yourself what not to do, to stay aware of this, otherwise you'll more likely end up doing it. When I do something bad, I almost always do it because I didn't write in my journal. It's a keystone habit, meaning it affects my mind, my body, my behaviour, my life in all ways, it flows like water through the ground affecting the earth in it, either letting the plants grow or poisoning them.
- So as add to above, have good habits, because these keystone habits are making you who you are. 40% of your life is a habit, 95% is speculated to be onconscious thinking which means the state of thinking, dreaming, consuming, habits, where 5% is the creation part that takes energy, like writing this blogue, creation.
- Delete social media from your phone, just do it don't say you need it because you have to maintain 'connections'. They aren't connections, it's just an illusion that occurs within both of the parties. If it were real connections, they would last outside of social media, independent. And if you need to stay in touch the whole year through social media because you only see each other once a year in real life, call each other instead of sending memes.
- Ask me for more tips because I'm going to bed now
- Plan your day, these boring things are bigger than tricks. Because you can't go on without tricks! This above is already tricky enough, but for the advanced.
Share this in any way if you want to help others, because people can't go further in life, can't succeed in nofap forever, if they don't see the big picture.

Do these habit changes one by one, with a strategy obtained out of this book. If this won't make you succesful, I totally understand that. Because this is only written for the people who have the power and ability to change, if you're a junk smoking weed, you'll most likely have forgotten this tommorow, because you're not used to taking notes. If you want to change, you need a plan, because there will be times you won't be as self aware as you feel when you feel guilty about it. The guilt is only more a kind of source to continue bad behaviour to forget it for a while, if you have the guilt, then you might be diseased if you don't know how to handle it. So take your guilt and make the decision now, to change.

I was so tired writing this, but I just really wanted to help you. I'm not used to helping others because I spend so much time on myself. But that was required for me in order to bring good to other people's life.

 

Now I'm on day 145, I'm going to sleep but let's just say for now that the growth after Nofap is that I have created the ability to focus in periods of 8-10 hours. Of course it's not only the Nofap, nofap isn't everything, if you stopped watching porn and watch movies instead, you're still wasting your life.