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Please help, looking to solve this problem ASAP! Arousal Problem.

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by LegendofVII, Jan 28, 2019.

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  1. LegendofVII

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    Every time I PMO, I develope anxiety, self-doubt, etc.

    I've made a conscious decision to stop PMO'ing / and stop MO'ing. I've also outlawed porn from my life and changed my perspective on it.

    I have one major problem though. I PMO'ed on Saturday and for some reason, my stuff is still aroused? Most guys have the opposite problem (ED) but with my problem, I have a minor bulge in my pants daily (it only happens after Porn). Even If I'm not thinking about sex / focused at work, I still can consciously feel my stuff as if my mind wants me to PMO. Other people can also see this bulge / when I'm walking. This shit is worse than anxiety because people think you're aroused or thinking about sex.

    Is there any solution to this? As I'm sitting down right now I can feel my fucking dick, when I say feel, I mean like it's ready to get aroused and PMO.

    PS, I've been PMO'ing for 10 years, I'm 21 now. I'm done with it.
     
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  2. How about becoming grateful that your healthy to have high test levels at this age and breath and relax.

    You may want to modify your diet, try fasting, eating less or no meat, focus on sattiv food (you can google it) this wil help you alot

    You may also want to train hard daily and be disciplined

    It's easy enough to say "I'm going to outlaw porn and mo" but are you willing to do the work?

    The work is to actually make sacrifices. Meditate daily, 24 hour juice fast, intense daily workouts, get out of the house, do creative work. This is the real work.

    Your CHI/Energy wants to EXPRESS somehow, so get busy and every time you notice your equipment is getting aroused send thanks for your health and go take a cold shower. (check out WIN HOF method for that)
     
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  3. IGY

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    That is exactly what your brain wants. It is craving the surge of the neurotransmitter dopamine when you masturbate to porn. When you relapse, the brain does not switch off. Rather, it wants more. So, the desire is there stronger than ever in the hope that you will do it again and again that day or within the next 2-3 days. This anticipation of instant gratification is why you have a semi-erect penis. But I really doubt anyone notices that, unless you have an enormous cock, lol. :p This arousal after you relapse is very common and we call it the chaser effect. You just need to stop PMO and this will stop. :)
     
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  4. LegendofVII

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    Thanks for the response man haha.

    Yea, I notice after a week or two of no pmo'ing it goes away.

    I believe our minds crave it, especially during stress. It's like a dopamine reward but better.

    I'm fighting it, I have no urge to watch porn or jack. I'm 100% focused on myself, training in the gym, and approaching girls.

    I'm thinking about using a sex-worker. I detest porn now. I always justified it by aaying "naked chicks arent bad or evil" but its not about that. Its about self control and having a healthy mind
     
  5. LegendofVII

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    Im starting a strength training program now.

    Thanks for the advice and response!

    I notice it goes away after a week of no pmoing
     
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  6. A full bladder can cause or exacerbate an unwanted erection.
    Keep yourself well hydrated throughout the day, and be sure to empty your bladder regularly.
    It won't stop the problem, but it will help.
     
  7. Zimzi

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    It’s exactly what u think. Ur body probs wants to PMO. Just don’t do it and u should be fine.
     

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