The brain is an amazing thing. The optic nerve actually presents everything you see upside down and the brain with all it's processing power learns to control all movement the way you need it to be to move in the world - right side up. So it's not surprising that the brain can make fantasies and feelings from videos appear as if the feelings are about real, living people whom we actually have a relationship with.
There is this one porn star from 25 years ago that I'm really fond of. And she isn't strikingly beautiful, just a certain kind of cute. Sadly, because of the era, there are no HD recordings of her to be downloaded - I checked during my last relapse.
you're literally just fapping to pixels and that is doing some serious damage to you physiologically. Hopefully that should be enough to make you get serious with stopping, or not.
As in rewiring neurons. Neurons that fire together (in our case masturbating to porn) wire together (get addicted).
you mention one girl but try thinking this way about all porn, To roughly quote something i read just this morning: it' not a woman. It' not a girl. It' someone acting, it' a photo of a female. It's all a act Believe I too understand the feelings the urges I too have had certain porn women that I prefered. But my addiction has also moved to chat sites. But remind yourself it' not real. They are paid to act in such ways talk in such ways. Etc
i agree that pornstars do not think or even know us. BUT I do know that they make the movie or pictures knowing that a lot of us jerk of on it. They are not that stupid to not know that. so thinking it like that, they are using us !
Heey Mgm, I do get your point, Thanks for that. BUT what I kind of meant is that ( only physically of course ) this one person is exactly the type of woman I dream off, I mean in every way, eyes, hair, breasts, ass, legs you name it... they chance of that is very small, but it is true ! I do however know that i have to do my absolute best to stay away from all of her vids and pics.. because no matter how beautiful she is.. i do not want to keep falling back into fapping !
Is she on one of those porn stars without makeup photo ops? If you can find her in one those that should cure your obsession and lust over her. I don't know which porn star she is but she is a glorified disease ridden whore covered in a fake mask of paint with cheap plastic fake body parts. You could probably find a blow-up doll or a mannequin that is more organic than your porn star crush. It's all in your mind. In real life, your porn star crush isn't appealing she is a diseased whore.
This. Also, in the same sense you could imagine her with all sorts of vinerial diseases and stinky, deseazed vagina. Every time your porn brain goes to her conjur up these thoughts along with it. And then recite this mantra over and over: porn sickness, porn sickness, porn sickness.
So she sells sex. We don’t know why. She might think it’s her only option. She might have contracted a disease from her work. She might feel little self-respect from the situation she’s in. How is name calling to make her seem less attractive useful? Putting someone down because we don’t have self-control and therefore lack self-respect is counterproductive. What if you met this woman and she was dressed very modestly and had changed professions? Do you view her differently? Do you still think you should call her names? She might be the sweetest person you ever met. Sorry @21yearsin ... I was responding to the same poster you were, not to you
The last thing "culture" wants to do is dignify women. It wants the exact opposite and the same for men, and that is desiring that men and women become totally degenerate. Degenerates are a whole lot easier to control, which is their endgame.
Well there is one thing I agree with : I HAVE TO GET OVER THIS !! No matter how beautiful my eyes or my cock says she is, yes she is and stays a whore who will have sex with any men ( because that is what a pornstar does ). With or without make up does not even matter, the face is : I have to get over it and stop fapping !! Thanks for this, very helpful !!