Potential reason why dudes get pied

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Derb90, Apr 19, 2022.

  1. Derb90

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    So dudes saying they get pied . Potentially from the whole dopamine aspect . Then there is the physiological. You body and brain are depleted. Ok that's a simple fix stop porn and let these recover to healthy levels.

    But here's another reason why pied .

    I read that as you age your dick and get smaller . Why ? Because you have less full erections to exercise the muscle . The more erections you have the better quality they are .

    So here's the thing stop using every single hard on. I'd say people are using every single hard on they have even when they are thinking they have pied and erection quality is what you would think is pied.

    Stop using every erection . It's like the same as the dopamine aspect . Leave it alone

    I don't see a problem with looking at images of girls if at it does is spike my hormones . It's actually good for getting erections lol . Just don't masterbate every time you have a hard on. Build up that dick energy . Pretty sure that should sort perceived pied.

    Flatline is when you have removed everything sexual and are responding to much less stimuli. Look at a tit guarantee you will get a reaction. So I think pied is mostly in people's minds .not that they made it up . But more they aren't aware of how there sex drive responds to the stimulus they feed it and how both too much and too little stimulus will change your sex drive
     
  2. TiredOfFailing

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    I wholeheartedly agree that pied is psychological, but imho thinking it's okay to look at pics of hot girls on the internet is a dangerous thought process for an addict to take. If you never got addicted to porn, maybe it would be ok to look at images of pretty girls, but for an addict, it's a slippery slope, that I personally fall down every time. And I've never heard the needing to have a lot of erections to exercise the muscle, but again that seems like a justification that can really fuck over an addict. Btw I doubt it's true.
     
  3. Ask1

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    Pied is not psychological. It's because you're depleted. I'm off porn but have always had a crazy imagination and MO a lot and have done so for 21 years mostly daily. Even upto 20 times a day. When you're depleted you wont get erections. End of.
     
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  4. Depleted of what, exactly?
     
  5. Ask1

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    Deplete yourself from normal sperm levels, normal erections, rest and recovery period. Because of all this your sausage is knackered, abused.
     
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  6. Well, that's fair - but if you had sex with a chick once per week - but weren't a porn addict - aren't you still depleted?

    I do understand where fapping like crazy can desensitize it physically. But, I'm not sure you are totally correct about the psychological side. I do think the physical side is much easier to fix - just with time. But the psychological side is much more dangerous with the morphing sexual taste people have experienced. I have experienced it and it causes me a lot of anxiety.
     
  7. Derb90

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    I would agree about the morphing. It doesn't cause me a huge amount of anxiety it's not a huge concern because I sort of understand how it all fits together . It's just an abused brain that looks for novelty and found something as close to it but still it's worrying how my brain has morphed over many many years of watching porn . I've been watching it for 18 -20 years

    10 years single no sex.

    Pretty sure my brains gone stir crazy ripped everything to shreds and now there's nothing left
     
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  8. Ask1

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    Once a week is normal compared to 5 rounds every day for hours and hours.
     
  9. How long have you been clean?
     
  10. Thats true. At 10 says clean I see a good difference already.
     
  11. Ask1

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    I forgot to add for 20+ years or however it has been for you.

    In a normal environment, in a relationship you won't be at it for hours a day. That once a week you mentioned might be a bit different ie you wait until you go on holiday the following week, you do it more then you recover a bit longer.

    Exactly where or when do we recover? Never! The 10 days off you had, is that in months?
     
  12. I started this addiction at 18 years old, unfortunately. I'm 33 now. I got serious about quitting last year - longest streak is about 37 days. But, so far I'm doing good with the urges.
     
  13. Ask1

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    I think you would need a nerd of a wife who'd give it once a month if you're on good behaviour and meet other targets as set by her. Definitely need something like that Remove all this hyper sexualisation.

    Pleasure should be a treat not some overhyped addiction.
     
  14. What are you talking about with a wife? Where did I even bring that up?
     
  15. Wugazi32

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    I think PIED mainly comes from the amount of PMO and length of time it's done for too, edging qnd binging being the main culprits.

    I mean, my PIED has been quite bad lately...I can look at my wife's perfect tits but still need a little manual stimulation sometimes to 'get there'...only had this issue for 2-3 years or so, before that I could get boners on demand.
     
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  16. So are you saying PIED is the fact that one looks at a woman they would traditionally find attractive and not get spontaneous erections?
     
  17. Ask1

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    You didn't, I did. Was just a suggestion.
     
  18. Ask1

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    Seriously dude having a wife is half or most of your problems solved in this addiction. Women are good at controlling. Get a cage for your snake, give her the key and let her monitor you. This way you can have a controlled break from all the rubbish of PMO.

    When you're single and by yourself you are left to deal with this crap yourself.
     
  19. So, I'm not married and have no kids.
     
  20. Ask1

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    Neither am I. But I think having someone will help. But it's hard meeting someone nowadays let alone meet someone that understands the habit.
     

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