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Questions about Death Grip

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by kamov, May 15, 2020.

  1. kamov

    kamov Fapstronaut

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    Hello guys!

    So today is 22/∞

    Im feeling wayyy much better since I started with this nofap journey. Happier, with more energy, life seems good right know.

    I was reading some posts of dudes who were battling against the famous Death Grip Syndrome. I immediatly related myself to that, I didn't feel any pleasure in sexual intercourse and I recognized my problem was that since I do not feel urges to watch porn at all.

    So, lately I find it easier to get an erection just by thinking about sexual stuff, I don't have to think about porn scenes to have an erection, I just need to think 3-4 seconds about hot chicks that I know and that is enough for me, but that is not my question.

    For those of you who are battling DGS or already cured it, how did you know you regained sensitivity in your penis ? Everytime I have an erection it seems like im ready to orgasm without any physical stimulation, besides than, when I have an erection I kinda feel my heartbeat in my penis. I notice that every time my heart goes "boom" I feel the boom in my penis.

    What you guys can say about that ?
    How did you noticed you regained sensitivity in your penis ?

    I appreciate any feedback.
    Thanks!
     
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  2. Took me maybe a coupe months, but I had a considerable increase in sensitivity. It just happened smoothly and naturally over time. I used to not be able to orgasm with a girl, even from oral.
     
  3. kamov

    kamov Fapstronaut

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    How much did you masturbated ? I think I masturbated 2-3 times a day for probably 6 years, most of them watching porn but I could easily get aroused and masturbate without porn. I have a problem with my dick sensitivity from prone.
     
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  4. Probably about the same amount as you. Lots of prone masturbation too, I'd say about 50-75%.
     
  5. kamov

    kamov Fapstronaut

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    Since your Nofap journey, did you had sex without any problems ? If yes, how long after you started this journey ?
     
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  6. I've never had sex. But if I did, I probably would have lasted about 15 seconds. Before NoFap, it never would have happened at all, from my guess.
     
  7. kamov

    kamov Fapstronaut

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    So, how do you know that you cured your lack of sensitivity problem ?
     
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  8. Because it took me less than a minute to jerk off, when previously it would take me much longer. And I would get hard from my underwear touching my junk. It was just more sensitive. Idk man, that's like saying "how do you know you regained the ability to smell." You can just feel it.
     
  9. kamov

    kamov Fapstronaut

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    Yeah, I understand you.
    I can see you have 0 days in your counter ? What was your previous streak ?
     
  10. I finished binging on PMO last night. I had a 9-day streak followed by a 6-day streak. Now I'm hoping for a 90.
     
  11. kamov

    kamov Fapstronaut

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    Ok, you relapsed, thats fine, continue your journey.
    Nothing in life comes easy, we need to fight for what we want.
    Nofap hard mode needs guts!

    Im currently on my way to day 23 hard mode, no urges to watch porn, sometimes when I have an erection it feels like i'm gonna orgasm so I try as best as I can to not think about anything sexual.

    Probably 7 years of PMO addiction (not heavy addiction altough) but it's still significant damage. Im motivated to reach 90 days Hard Mode and then I will try to pursue sex at the same time I will do my best to extend my Nofap journey to day infinite. I'm fù***** done with pornography for life. And probably masturbation aswell.

    Be strong, keep strong, we men are more brave and powerful than we think!

    Much luck!!
     
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  12. Thanks man. We'll both get to 90 days.
     
  13. Nuallann

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    Guys with PIED almost always have death grip syndrome, they go hand in hand, and might honestly be directly linked. We know that all male mammals will become temporarily desensitized to a single female mate if he has sex with her enough times during a relatively short period, taking him longer, and longer to ejuculate over time. Taking time away from said mate brings the sensitivity back.

    When guys watch porn they're getting desensitized in a way nature really didn't equip us to handle, and often edging with a really firm grip, something a vagina can never provide. I remember taking like 40 minutes to cum to porn when I was really addicted. Was likely a combo of the mental/hormonal desensitization, and the physical desensitization of the penis.
     
  14. kamov

    kamov Fapstronaut

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    Hello, thanks for your reply.
    I don't really think I have PIED problems besides DGS (death grip syndrome). Im 24 days in hard mode and I don't feel any urge to watch porn at all, I do feel to masturbate but I can control. Besides that, many many times I could masturbate without pornography videos. I would often find easy to masturbate just by thinking about a hot friend (female).

    When I had my first time I got hard, in fact, semi-erect, I could penetrate, but when my dick was inside I felt very little sensations, eventually my dick got flaccid. I was on PMO in this time.

    Since I began this journey, I found very easy to get erect just by thoughts, I just need to think about sexual stuff with girls that I know and that is enough. Sometimes If I am too horny and I do think about that stuff I often feel that i'm gonna cum, I try to keep these kind of thoughts outside of my head but they come around sooner or later.

    As I said, I don't really think that I have PIED, I wasn't a heavy addicted, never evolved to hardcore porn, in fact I find it disgusting. Probably masturbated 2-3 times per day durante 6-7 years.

    I will try to do the 90 day hard mode and then I will try to have sex.
     

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