Relationship how to deal?

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Inlovewithmywife, Jun 17, 2019.

  1. Inlovewithmywife

    Inlovewithmywife New Fapstronaut

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    Hello friends, i am new on this forum and i am here becouse i have a 4 year relationship with the most beautifull and love character girl i ever had she involves me in every part of her life and is more with my family as me myself. All i try to say is she is amazing en ofcourse has bad character things wich is normal. But i notice my 10+ year everyday once mastrubate or porn made me very hungry for more sex wich result in discussions and stress and problems between us. Also ive been in very difficult situations wih other women and always very hungry for the rush when its dangerous. But luckyl with my body i never went. But my mind is full of sin. And i think porn and mastrubation and also sometimes cocaine wich is driven by sex made me bad. Becouse i love my girl and i think once or twice normal sex in week should be enough. Altho i wonder if its in my nature or in my old addiction.

    Please let me know folks how to deal in a relationship.
     
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  3. Always be positive

    Always be positive Fapstronaut

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    This will help you a lot, watch this and say goodbye to urges forever

    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/if-youre-struggling.232140/

    But however urges are sometimes attacking even if you are focused on something else, when i got rid of those 1% foods which increases urges and started enjoying 99% other beautiful foods it became so much easyer for me ^_^