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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by THChe, Aug 5, 2014.

  1. Aug 5, 2014 #1
    THChe

    THChe New Fapstronaut

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    Heij Folks.

    Before I start writing about my Motivation and why I'm here, where it all starts and so stuff. I'm sorry for my grammar. I'm a nativespeaker of Gearman (exactly I'm from Austria) therefore, Sorry PPL for the

    Kay. Let's go in the hoe'!

    Well, I guess this describes my actual situation best. I'm 23yrs now and reaching the Age of 24 in well, exactly 91days. I'm fappin' i guess for over the half of my live now (can't tell exactly), and this is a lot of time wasted with watching porn (not only for education i guess *chch*). But also get in a lot of holes and also keep them warm for bad bedtimes^^. But this couldn't be the rest of my live in my whole opinion i think i need a change.

    Nah'.
    I'm thinking over this step i took now over half an year. Crashed a lot of relationships due of surrealistic expectations in my partners. The lesson I learned so far live ain't porn. But stop. What happend in the last years:

    As i said. I started wankin' my dick red at the age of 12yrs. Started first contact with the WWW with 9. Jizzed at the age of 16. Lost virginity with 18. You know what? My mind is so hard ruined by Porn that I usually preferred jerking before f*****.

    And this is were I am now. Just crushed (nearly) another Relationship (actual we are in an break) with my (secret) Porn/Sex Addiction.
    I read an Article on the ViceAlps-Site (in German) about a guy which stopped having orgasms about 100 days. And this was the Kickoff in 2 weeks struggling in my mind with the thought what would live be without being sex addicted. This Article also contained some informations about an community in the Web. After one search request. Yep here I'm now.

    Smelling the wind of Change in my Nose.


    I have in reality no clue what will happen in the next 91days being a hardliner.
    No Porn. No Sex. And a lot of Books for reading. Sports and all the other stuff will do also their jobs. But what are my goals? Being happier and the most. Acting Different.


    XOXO THChe
     
    THChe, Aug 5, 2014
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  2. Aug 5, 2014 #2
    Once&4ALL

    Once&4ALL Fapstronaut

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    Welcome TCHhe, you have already taken the most important 4 steps, and the hardest, in your NoFap journey: admitting you have a problem, becoming part of this movement to make ourselves better, telling all of the other guys your story (don't forget, we all have them), and ignoring the potential language barrier (it won't bother us at all). Read the posts, follow the links to get educated about this addiction we all share, identify what triggers you to watch P, and the steps to prevent that (web filters, only using Internet in public places, etc.) If you are going the hard mode, you need to avoid anything that could possibly cause excitement that would provoke you to M. You'll see lots of stories of how other guys have fought on the site. Welcome to the NoFap team. I wish you luck, but even more importantly, perseverance. Let me know if I can help in any way.
     
    Once&4ALL, Aug 5, 2014
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