Say "No" at first

Hey guys,

I wanna share you a standpoint that may help you or remind you where you are.

The cravings are always there, and relapses mostly comes with a lack of patience or with a self-deception that tells you no harm will be done after a binge so you can start again. In the history, the great inventions mostly have come up with a simple idea. So a simple and plain thought taken into action can lead to great things, sometimes we just think that everything is too complex to achieve, we think that things could just be achieved by harmony of complicated events. But I think no, the track of the accomplishment gets easier when we think simple and effective.

In terms of pornography, it could work. I am well aware that some of us here are just too obsessed with the idea that they have to find something deeper to conquer their addiction. It is always very hard to cope with and maintain this process of thinking very forwardly. After a while, you just lose the track and cannot even remember why you had started this. At the point, There is no possibility to find any rational reason to hold on to. And you all know well that it sucks.

So the point, we should stay in the moment, and reveal very clear remarks on the way of recovering, and be able to remember the promises and why we have done it very easily. Complexed everyday schedules can confuse our minds, if we just lose even the track of one of them, it will give the misinterpretation that everything goes wrong.