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Seeking female validation

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Damnation, Sep 1, 2019.

  1. Sep 1, 2019 #1
    Damnation

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    I am not as young as some of you guys, but I'm young enough to have been brought up in this new garbage feminized PC culture. Like many of you, I grew up with little or no male influence. Female teachers, 2 sisters, and a feminist gold digging mother. Male sexuality always seemed wrong after hearing my mindless mother speak about the men in her life, needless to say she imprinted her beliefs on me, which is what I assume is happening to many of you.

    I can tell you guys that I am married, for 6 years now, we dated 11 years before getting married, and in that time I was always, and still am seeking validation of women, which has put me in a few sticky situations with other women, and also hurt those women when I had no explanation for my ED, which turned out to be PIED. So I thought maybe I could help you guys not leave in your wake a trail of broken hearted women behind you, like I have. Check out this article, it will help.

    https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.th...m/why-your-boyfriend-doesnt-initiate-sex/amp/
     
    Damnation, Sep 1, 2019
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  2. Sep 1, 2019 #2
    Tibo87

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    Hey @Damnation

    Nice article and good to have your experience here.

    I would add to that a great book called ''The Queen's Code'', and how (basically) a lot of women are ''frog farming'', in a sense that they expect (at the beginning) good men to behave like ''perfect women'', thus blaming them for not acting as they would like.

    Sexual empowerment works on both side, when women are able to express themselves without shame and to be equal with men regarding a lot of part of societies, but also when men embrace their Masculinity and can express their emotions and still be in their ''providing'' role (emotionally, physically, for support, etc).
     
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  3. Sep 1, 2019 #3
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    Never had beliefs of feminism to females as a kid or teenager. Just had my mom worrying about me finding the right woman. If you are married and have been for 6 + years, be proud of yourself. Your mother was just trying to let you know how it really is from her experience. From my experience it's either the male or female that initiates sex, mostly the male, but it's nature. Any thanks for the article, hope you have a good healing process and gain resistance.
     
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