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Self sabotage is getting in the way

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by StayClean&Proactive, Mar 2, 2024.

  1. Mar 2, 2024 #1
    StayClean&Proactive

    StayClean&Proactive Fapstronaut

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    I had to cut ties with the first girl I dated if you saw my previous thread. A second girl showed interest in me immediately after. I wasn’t attracted to her but she had such a good personality that I was willing to give her a shot, unfortunately she walked away because I wouldn’t let go of the previous person that became distant after the first date.

    There have been so many times where I self sabotaged when it comes to women that it’s not even funny. How do I stop this. I can’t let go of having low self esteem due to having Asperger’s
     
    StayClean&Proactive, Mar 2, 2024
    StayClean&Proactive, Mar 2, 2024
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  2. Mar 2, 2024 #2
    drac16

    drac16 Fapstronaut

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    Just take a break, bro. There's no obligation on you that says that you have to date someone right after a precious relationship ends. There's more to life than dating. If you want to date again, then do it, but don't rush. I believe that you should only date once you have gotten over the previous relationship. Otherwise you're going to be constantly comparing the current girlfriend with the previous one, and that's not fair to her. The new girlfriend deserves to be treated as an individual, not as someone who is merely second best.

    Take some time off, dude. There's no rush.
     
    drac16, Mar 2, 2024
    drac16, Mar 2, 2024
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