Sex Toys without Porn

You should form your own opinion about your sexuality. You intuitively know what is ok and what is not

 

Personally I think you've got the right idea, using a toy (fleshlight, etc) would be better for penile health that a hand, and without p0rn better for your brain!

Of course, nothing compares to a real vagina - but if you guys aren't getting it on the regs, I suppose a fleshlight would be okay. Just stay away from the artificial stimulation of p0rn!

 

I have 2 onaholes but I don't use them because I do nofap. I just bought them as a "worst case scenario" in case I just have to really clean the pipes. I used them only 4 times.

If I were you I would do nofap until you are cured from porn addiction. Once you are cured, you can OCCASIONALLY use the toys.

In your case what is problematic is that your use of the toys is completely intertwined and associated to your use of porn. There are strong chances that you won't be able to resist porn if you use them.

You may have to give them up for life. But first, you sould really abstain from porn AND masturbation/sextoys for as long as you can to break the porn and masturbation habits.

 

What's with all the necromancy lately? I know the forums aren't as spicy as they used to be, but still.

 

Hello,
I've been using a metal scrotal stretcher for over a year now. They have made my balls hang lower. I love how it makes them hang and dangle down there. It doesn’t cause any discomfort or arousal whatsoever.

So, I was wondering is it okay to wear it for a few hours every day during nofap? And if I do, will it affect my nofap progress?

I am new to nofap and on my 5th day of hard mode and thought that I should ask the others.

 

I Just say No sex toys, I read something about will power and Asking God for strength reading. It's like trying to quit weed by vaping THC substances. Please NO! I'm against sex toys!

 

My toys brough me alot of shame post-O when i did use them. I hated having to clean up and hide them away, always worried about who would find them, if anyone ever did.

When i started NoFap i felt a need to get rid of them all so i could be clean. I didn't use M toys, though i started out with those (i had a world-class fleshlight collection, breast molds and mouthpieces) My preferences were insertables used for A play, which after using, and discovering prostate O for the first time, i became addicted to.

Plain old MO was never the same.
Toys spoiled me horribly.
I'm glad to be rid of them. I am tempted to buy more but i won't.

If i would go so far as to allow myself to give in, it would most likely be with vanilla MO, as that is the most sane and natural way of giving in i have ever experienced, compared to my other depravities.

For the record, I don't plan on giving in anytime soon. At least not today.

 

I guess I am going to stop using my ball weights. Or at least minimize their use. In fact I suddenly realise, I'm probably addicted to them as well.

Many thanks for the advice.

 

First, no masturbation toys. Secondly, what is your goal here? Do you want to give up porn, masturbation, or orgasms or, as in my case, all three? YOU get to set your own goals here. That said, if you are going hard mode, then anything that enhances masturbation is out. As for the ball weights, if they increase your arousal, then yes they have to go. Otherwise, if they don't increase the urges, then they should be fine.

 

I’m still working on restoring my foreskin during my recovery. Before I would always have a hard time not MO while putting on the restoring devices so it has been somewhat beneficial during NoFap. I will say one into recovery with both SA and NoFap when I have MO it has not been near as enjoyable as I recalled from the past.

 

HOW do you restore your foreskin? I've never heard of that. Please educate me, either here or send it to me in a private message. I assume SA is sexual addiction. I'm expecting that if and when I resume masturbation, that it may not be as enjoyable as in the past. I'm crossing one bridge at a time. I want nothing to do with porn and taking ANY action to sustain kidnapping, rape, and human trafficking. All of these are behind the porn scene and it does happen. It is obvious you are not rebooting. So what is your end goal that brings you to this forum? I'm a little confused about what you are trying to eliminate: porn usage, masturbating too much, or having orgasms or maybe all three? From what you have said before, you have returned to masturbating to orgasm. So I'm guessing you just want to rid your life of porn usage.

 

damn, I'm a bad example to you'll keep relapsing each 2 to 3 days and I give reasons for my relapse. I seem to re-enjoy it and it can go dow bad again!

 

You didn't have to bring back a dead thread just to say that...

 

This is trying to separate hardware from software, but if anything it should be clear to anyone paying attention it's not so easy to do in the person. Anyone here probably already watched a lot of porn and even if they stop forever from here on out they can most likely remember or even create new content in their mind based on the amount of learning from previous exposure over the years. We're not computers that you can just reformat and install new software on.

Theoretically it is possible for someone to just have the feeling and the physical sensation without the porn narrative at all, (although that's much more likely if someone was never exposed to porn but was exposed to sex toys - not sure if that's at all realistic) but then there's still a question of being addicted to masturbation. It's up to any given individual if they care about that, which is already a real stretch in terms of real world possibility.

 

You’re going to love it then when you hit your 60s! LOL!!