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Should i give up my foot fetish?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by asdfadsf, Mar 31, 2023.

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  1. Mar 31, 2023 #1
    asdfadsf

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    Im 15 and i have a very strong foot fetish.. If i see a pretty girl one of the first thing i think about is me giving her a foot massage... Do you guys think that i should give this fetish up or just try reduce it? I saw a comment that said if someone has foot fetish they cant enjoy sex without touching their partners feet .. Is that true?
     
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  2. Mar 31, 2023 #2
    Liege Blåhaj

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    I don't know about not being able to enjoy sex without touching your partners feet... but I'd say there's nothing wrong with having a foot fetish. We're all attracted to different things. It's nothing to beat yourself up about. And there are plenty of women out there who would be quite happy to indulge your fetish. They would find it cute. It's also quite normal for men to fantasize doing sexual things with women. I wouldn't indulge in this, as it can lead to porn. But it is a normal impulse.

    Just curious, do you feel like your foot fetish is interfering in your life in some way?
     
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  3. Mar 31, 2023 #3
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    There’s a lot of debate about fetishes. Some people say w/o participating in the fetish, they can’t orgasm. For some, it may be they just need a partner w/sexy feet. Different flavors.

    I think the most important is that you don't create dischord in your mind. If feet are your thing, enjoy it.

    It's not quite a fetish (probably more a kink) but I love women that are /really thick/chubby/plump/bbw. Since I can remember, this is what does it for me. Can't definitively say why but I stopped asking that question years ago. I embrace it and make it known if it comes up in conversation. My wife is a big girl and knows what I like.

    I think people theses days are more open minded about fetishes. (Gen X and younger, anyway). So while some people may judge, many won't. The jusgers can fuck off.

    You're 15. Your sexual journey is just starting. I say explore EVERYTHING you like (legally and consensualy of course) b/c who knows what you'll be into in 10 years. But do it in a non-porn way if possible.
     
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  4. Mar 31, 2023 #4
    asdfadsf

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    Well its making nofap hard thats for sure and i literally get turned on if i see JUST an ankle in public :D Personally i dont think that its normal to get turned on by an ankle.. Or is it?
     
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  5. Mar 31, 2023 #5
    Liege Blåhaj

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    I could see that lol. Also you are young and it's normal for people your age to have a lot of sexual desire. As for whether it's normal... I mean maybe it isn't if you go by what most people are into. But why does that matter? You like what you like there's no shame in that. Some people like feet. Others like armpits. Others bellybuttons. And of course others like butts and chests and stuff like that.

    Learning how to manage your desire for sex is something everyone has to learn. Maybe you might have it harder than other people because women don't tend to hide their feet. But that doesn't mean you should try to "give it up". Other guys don't try to "give up" their attraction to breasts. They just accept it. It's normal to have sexual feelings towards other people arise. You have to learn how to deal with them. Having something to focus on helps.
     
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  6. Mar 31, 2023 #6
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    fetish is clinically described as "something which MUST be present for there to-be sexual arousal"
    so, if the feet issue is 100% necessary for you to be interested , its a clinical issue. talk to your clinical doctor for a mental health assistant
     
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  7. Apr 1, 2023 #7
    InappropriateUsername

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    Bro, when I was your age a box of doghnuts would turn me on. Hormones. Perfectly normal to be easily aroused
     
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  8. Apr 2, 2023 #8
    asdfadsf

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    I dont think that women like guys with foot fetish..
     
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  9. Apr 4, 2023 #9
    Beachguy759

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    Some women love foot rubs and foot play. It can be one of many sex positive experiences. Important to distinguish between healthy, fun foot play and compulsive behavior that creates problems for you.
     
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