I have troubles getting a good deep sleep when I sleeping/spooning with sb else. I am basically relationship virgin, my only relationship lasted about 3 weeks (happened 9 years ago) but I didnt manage to sleep with her because I was still naive and dumb kid. So I have no idea how it would be. Since then I had my fair share of hookups (more then fair) and situation was always the same: I was sleeping very badly, often woken up by the other person and only half sleeping. As a result the next day I felt absolutely tired and sleepy. I have no troubles to sleep in my double bed alone (I am used to it) and also sleeping with different girls didnt change anything, so I realized that problem is not in bed or girls but in me. This might be one reason why I am so terrified of relationships: It is okay to sleep like this once on Friday night but just having a real relationship and sleeping with SO every single day -I feel that would literally kill me - due to sleep deprivation. Anybody suffering from same symptoms? How is sleeping in your relationship? Do you feel fully refreshed afterwards?