Starting out... hoping this will help

Hi guys. So I'd heard about this a while ago and I'm hoping it'll help me. I've basically had trouble with sex for some years now where I basically get ed with women but have never had it with porn. I don't always get it, but it's often with girls I've never been with before. So I figure it's either a porn problem, or performance anxiety, or some combination of the 2. So I'm going to do a "reboot" and see how I get on. As far as the porn goes, I found myself watching stuff that's just humiliating for anyone involved in making, producing or watching it - I don't want to be part of that chain anymore. Any similar experience, advice, feedback much appreciated! Thanks! T