Stop beating around the bush

This is the creepiest and most misogynist thing I read since...well, since that one article I found a few days ago. But if it weren't for that, you would take the cake for this year at least.

 

I agree with this. NO WAY is it misogynist. Unfortunately I've only ever done step 1 so far. When it comes to step two which is initiating sexual contact as possible to avoid the friend zone I fall back even when a girl is giving me all the signals she wants me to take charge. When you don't do step two things become muddled and you'll be complaining about being in the friend zone. This is not UNWANTED touching, its her wanting you to take charge as a male.

Which is true.

I thought this post was good guidelines for someone to follow honestly. Its about initiating and not waiting for that "dream girl" to pick you up and do everything you ever dreamed about which has a high probably of never happening.

 

Okay, first:

Like...really?

Second, if you're close enough to a girl to not get peppersprayed if you do this, you've already progressed more than about 90% of guys who post here. This is helpful if you're already dating, which, if you actually read the posts in this sub-forum instead of jumping to conclusions, many of us aren't.
So you suggest what? We just do this to some random girl on the streets?

 

Having a narrow mindset and blanket labelling a thread misogynist for the use of figurative language(prey and predator) which has truth in is ridiculous.

What are you talking about the whole thread is about initiating contact and following through with your actions. It's about no longer being in this made up 90%, getting inside of this "pepper spray range" and not beating around the bush about letting her know your intentions.

Yes and No.

It is to get you to the stage of dating (can be used on dates too yeah). Initiating contact through the eye contact and the touching.

Building up a nice straw man argument and knocking it down does nothing. I didn't jump to any conclusion or made any suggestion that people in this thread are dating. You did that. I myself have never been on a date and hence, the whole point of the thread is that initiating and moving things along in that direction.

 

Because girls love being touched below the shoulders by random guys.

I was referring to the original post. And again, how is this initiating?! How the heck is touching below the shoulders and kissing something that's in any way acceptable before at least the first date?

 

Okay, I would like to point out that this is complete bobbins!
I think OP was wrong but he didn't post "hate speech" or something. Why was he censored? This just completely kills any discussion...

 

What means "beating around bush" ?

 

It means not conveying ones emotions and intentions clearly and instead remaining vague.

 

Yes - what is a vagina?

 

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