Success with woman - maybe why it happens

I've noticed I'm less fussed about sex, not in a flatline way, just I'm not so controlled by it and that it's the main purpose of my life. This has translated into me being less fussed with not pissing off my wife so that she'll sleep with me. What I mean is if I need to say something now that I know she won't like but it needs to be said I'll say it rather than thinking "she'll not be happy and then I might not get some". I'm just wondering if this translates (especially for single guys) into a confidence that they're not having to impress woman as much and I think this is often attractive.

Years ago I said to a mate who was going off travelling to assume every girl he met fancied him. He came back and said that he'd done it and he'd had girls throwing themselves at him. I think if you think a girl is attracted to you then you feel and act confident which they find attractive. I wonder if there is this partly going on with NoFap?

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