Hey there fellows nofappers! I wanted to share a thought with you, a thought that is haunting me since one year. I'm suffering from hocd(which is lighter now thanks to some tactics) but... i have all the fetishes i got from using porn for four years. Now, i got to the... 96 or 95 day right now, it feels much easier to give up to fap even though my mind is always looking for sex. And hocd. So cutting directly to the point, i get hard from thinking of transgendered people, and i'm thinking, why not trying it out? I mean, it's kinda strange, they never interested me before porn, but why not giving my mind what it does want? What do you fellow Fapstronauts think about it? I think is also a way to you know... how to tell it, like if you wanna masturbate. I feel dopamine and the electric discharges into my body, just like when i think of porn. For this reason i feel it like relapsing. It's confusing but i kinda feel this way. Tell me people! Stay strong! PS: 90 days didn't cut all the fetishes crap away, so i think it takes a bit more of time to clearly rewire your brain in the right way... i guess 90 more days... or one year, who knows.
First of all i dont know what Hocd is so please tell me Actually im at the samw spot as you are i just have more days and i also have this thougths about transgendered people and i also thougth hmm maybe try it out and if i not like it i know but in fact its only a fantasie i mean one day i would love to try it other days i dont but if im on the street and see beautiful girls i like them and dont think like omg i only want her if she has a penis so instead of trying trannys we have to rewire in actually getting to "normal" girls but i dont know youre background i came from a sissy hypnosis fetish so i know that this transgendered person thing is just a fantasie If you also had this type of fetish maybe check out my post about it https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...e-addicted-to-sissy-porn.157197/#post-1333805
I humbly ask that folks who have an interest in transsexuals keep firmly in mind that these are people......not objects. So if you feel like "trying it out", ask yourself if you are interested in learning about that person or are you just trying to have sex with a fetish object? I think your answer to that question will help tell you what the right thing to do is.
Well what you say is rigth and i understand what you mean and thats the problem its just a fetish ofc they are normal people but are a fetish in our head and i actually wouldnt see an issue with that if you dont have a peoblem having this fetish and visit prostituets but our problem is its just a fanntasie we never even had sex with a transexual so our brain now just thinks well you cant fap so lets just do it in real life but in real life we actually notice that we dont like it you get what i mean ? So i think our aproch was more one of well lets try it so if i dont like it i actually know but i mean i already know the answer But its not so hard to resist the thougth after 280 days of no orgasm because im super horny i mean yesterday at the gym a super hot girls was in front of me when i did my exercise and i felt that i could have an orgasm just starring at her ass like wtf and this just strengths my fear of actual sex because i no i will cum in seconds and i think thats where this transgendered person fetish comes because it would be me that gets fucked so i couldnt be performing bad specially if i visit a prostitute because she just wants the money but yeah thats just the fantasie in my head
I really do understand what you are saying Syx. Thanks for the clarification. And by the way, I am attracted to she-males myself. I just remind myself that it's a real human we are talking about.
Anyone can say they want to try someone out. A lesbian could say she wanted to try out guys, that isn't offensive. No need to be a fragile SJW seeking validation.
most likely this is a porn substitute. You’re interested in the transgendered person because your porn brain craves that hit of dopamine. I like what someone else here said as a guideline: if you’re interested in pursuing a long term relationship with a transgendered person maybe it is ok. If not, don’t do it.
Mr. Q, Hardly am I being a SJW. But when you refer to a transsexual as an "it", that sucks. Notice you didn't refer to a lesbian as an it. You referred to trying "someone" out. That's not offensive to me either.
Very good point ............. "most likely this is a porn substitute." Seems like the OP (Original Poster) is transitioning [preferring] more and more to women. Men & women is the most popular preference -- by numbers.
If my sin is being overly sensitive to trans gender people......then I am guilty as charged! Please keep in mind, my sympathy and empathy for both the trans people AND those of us with addiction who have been drawn to trans gender "images" as a result of our addiction. And I especially include myself in that latter group.
