The Idiot's Guide to Meeting Woman

1] Get out of your house, get off line.

You are not going to meet women unless you get out. Buy yourself a coffee at the local café. Expensive you say? Think of it as an 'opportunity cost'.

2] Do not look 'hungry'.

Control yourself. Do not be leering about checking out the women too obviously. Be subtle about it. Actually, ignore the cutie at first. Better if they make eye contact with you and smile first. For every woman wants to be found attractive.

3] Sip your coffee nonchalantly.

And gaze into the distance. You have something on your mind. You want to be the contented bull chewing placidly on his cud, not the hungry wolf salivating.

4] Let the women show signs of interest first.

Don't be surprised that a cutie may now put herself in 'harm's way'. She may come in, circle about, and then sit within striking distance to you. She has given you the green light. But take your time.

5] Strike.

Now strike up a conversation. I do it by gazing above her, or beyond her. Her eyes will look at me, I meet hers, smile, like it's an accident, and say hello. Carry on with natural conversation. Nothing too flashy.

6] Do not corner her.

Leave after half an hour, getting the phone number of course.

7] Text her maybe a couple of weeks later. Don't be too eager.

 

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Perhaps... no iron rule... hot or cold. The thing is to do something different. Hot women have guys chasing hard. Ho hum... in their reality.If you don't text straight away, she may get a little curious about you... and wonder why not.

Also, don't go for the hot women. Go for the cuties. They might not be quite so good in the looks department... but it's a safe bet that they more than make up for it in terms of personality. The hot woman is often stuck up. She can be spoilt from too much attention.

 

Time management, and the avoidance of drama.