I've been wondering for quite a while. I know that everyone has their own triggers and etc. If the subject matter is not increasing in nature or dominance of your own desires. If its the same or right along the lines of what naturally happens to you in a relationship. would it still be considered as dangerous and detrimental as a habit that increased or changed in nature, along with desires of what you like?
Yes. Whether you are watching porn along the lines of your natural desire or watching messed up porn they are both equally detrimental.
Yes. In fact if you go through most journals on this forum you will notice that most folks started out with pretty vanilla porn. However over time the brain gets used to the dopamine being produced. So now more novelty is required to get the same dopamine rush! And before you know it, you are searching out more and more extreme stuff.