I just joined because after years of attempts to stop on my own, I've never progressed beyond a week. In a month, I'll have been married for 12 years, and my "solo work" has nearly destroyed our marriage. A bit of background: I'm in my mid-30s, and this has been an issue for me for over two decades. At my worst, I was taking care of business 2-4 times a day, 7 days a week (even during the marriage). Most recently, I've been 1-3 times a day, but I've struggled to get past the 3-day mark. My hope is to use the accountability here to get past the week, month, and, hopefully, year mark and save my relationship with my wife. The lack of orgasm during sex has all but killed our sex life, and that has also harmed our relationship as she feels that I'm less interested in her than in the porn, stories, etc. Thanks in advance for your help.