Unconditional Love

I know for sure that if I will argue with my man it's to defend my point, not to supposedly test his ability to protect my benefits or well-being. There is no one in the whole world, who would be able to understand and preserve my interests better than me, that is what I feel sure about.

The situation you describe hardly feels like any form of true partnership, let alone love. I don't think the pre-established idea that your (future) woman will argue just to test your responsiveness will be helpful if you wish to create comprehensiveness between the two of you. There is a variety of reasons people argue in life, whether it's within marriage or in other situations.

As for unconditional love, I never saw any example of it ever in real life. Even the so-called unconditional love of parents is just a illusion in my eyes. Parents aren't saints, they are regular people with their limits and red-lines. Which they won't allow their own children to cross.

 

Do you think parents wouldn't be able to hate their children. In case those special boundaries are crossed and messed with ?

 

There are many reasons parents hate their children and vice versa. This situation of queer children leaving home is one of the many possibilities. Parents can also hate their children if they turn up to be failures in life, but they never show it straightforwardly.

Just look at all the mothers who kill their newborn children for the sole reasons they never wanted them in the first place. Or the fathers who abondon their children and partners because they see them as burdensome.

Unconditional love is only an illusion people like to believe in. But the closest form to it in reality is the bound between parents and kids.