Was I just vulnerable??

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Noland, Jul 26, 2017.

  1. Noland

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    So I got told off earlier by this girl. I was told that I was only into her because I was vulnerable this summer.

    This was a hard summer. I was able to quit PMO and I made leaps and bounds in other areas. Okay, so this girl isn't confident that I was in the right mind when I decided that I was into her. I feel as if this is something to think about and it's a cool conversation topic. Do you guys agree with her or do you also believe that I was in the right mind?

    If this isn't enough information, just ask and I'll answer if I can.
     
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  2. Kenzi

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    I honestly want to help but don't understand.
    you were poached for vulnerability?
     
  3. Noland

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    Hey Jolie, that's not it.
    Do you remember the post about the girl I stopped associating with. You replied that I write my own story.

    Anyways, she recently told me that I probably never actually liked her in the first place. She said that I was vulnerable, because I was abstaining from PMO and my body craved attention from anyone.

    What do you think about that?
     
  4. Kenzi

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    Oh!
    Hmmmmm....
    Well that is interesting.. I did go back and read the rest.. She had her own issues if I remember
     
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    She did have her own issues. That's definitely something I'm not denying, but I want to make sure I'm not ignoring my issues. Her telling me this was probably a chance at bettering myself.

    So do you think my feelings were real? It's easy for me to be like "Ofcourse they were real," but that doesn't help anyone. I can't know for sure (by myself) until I start school again. Right now, I feel as if they were real, but what do I know.
     
  6. Kenzi

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    Well, give you time to reflect.
    Always turning to the internet for answers instead of looking within, isn't going to answer anything.
    That's a huge problem with today's kids.
    They don't know how to discover anything.
    Life is full of things you can't learn online.
     
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  7. Noland

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    Lol, did I just get the "these kids today" lecture.

    Well I doubt I'll find much answers from within on my own, but I'll just sit on it. She won't be able to answer my question, and I already thought I had my answer.
     
  8. Kenzi

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    Lol, I'm like 15 years older than you, Goober.
    So yes I'm going to sit here with my big Grey beard and give you some sage advice....
    Things Google can't teach you...
    If you text a girl to ask her out, she will always think it's casual.
    If you go back home for holidays, wake up early or you won't get any hot water for a shower when visiting your folks. Everyone is selfish when it's not their bill.
    When you buy a house, and it's a fixed rate mortgage, nobody ever talks about property taxes going up quarterly. It does. Make sure you have a good company. Don't use a bank. They are selfish and if you look online it's not in the print and on paper, it's teeny tiny.

    Life lessons.
     
  9. Noland

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    You just made me learn all of this online instead of real life :mad:

    Just kidding. I know what you mean. This is just one of those things where I can't know for sure. Was I actually just vulnerable? Hooooow the heck am I supposed to know lol. She just assumed and it's just bothering me that I can't know for sure. It makes me feel as if what I felt was fake. Who knows
     
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  10. Kenzi

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    It's going to be one of those things that 5 years from now you will be eating oatmeal and go Oh Man!
    ______ is the answer.
    It just is.

    Something else you can't learn online :)
     
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  11. Noland

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    LMAO :emoji_laughing: Alright I'll just let it be hahahaha
     
  12. Kenzi

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    And your current girlfriend will be like What?
    And you will say

    Do I have a story for you hunny...
    And it'll be funny...
    And she will say You were addicted to porn?
    And you will say Once, a long long time ago.
     
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  13. Noland

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    I am deceased man. I wish I could give this a thousand likes! Hahaha.

    That's exactly how it's going to go down. I'm an amazing storyteller :emoji_laughing::emoji_older_man:
     
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  14. Kenzi

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    Not as good as me bruh
     
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    "Hunny, you know that MasturbationProclamation website that's all over TV. Yeah. It used to be called NoFap. This is my story."
     
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  17. Kenzi

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    Bahahahahahahahahahaha....
    Absolutely.
    :)
     
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  18. tweeby

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    Oh boy. . . Are you actually taking what she said seriously?
     
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