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What are the impacts on the brain ?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Oxyd_, Sep 22, 2019.

  1. Oxyd_

    Oxyd_ Fapstronaut

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    Hello guys

    I was on PMO since 31st August till last Sunday 15th September where I went out with my ex got drunk and ended up at her place having sex. As much as I tried I couldn't hold it in me and ended up O all 3 times we had sex. And it has been like that for the whole week. I've been going to her place we have sex and I O. I'm trying to retain the load by doing Kegel or even bitting my finger to distract me but it's stronger than me. We have a certain chemistry in bed that I can't explain and as much as I try to hold it, it also feels right to finish off if you understand what I'm saying. She noticed sometimes that I was fighting my will to unload and asked me what was going on. I tried to explain it to her and she didn't get it. She thought that I was either having some health issues like std's or seeing someone or that she was the problem. I told her that none of those scenarios corresponded to the truth. I was trying not to cum for health and mind purposes. Now what I feel different :

    I'm not a porn addict but I used to masturbate at least twice a day. Even when having sex frequently like every day. What I'm noticing is that I don't have that urge in me anymore. And whenever I think about the act of masturbating I'm like: " Wtf, was I on drugs or something? Was I teen discovering sex for the first time? Fucking waste". I'm really repelled by it. My questions now are :

    1 - What those thoughts about masturbation mean exactly? Does it mean that my brain is changing and rewiring?

    2- Does ejaculate *only with sex* takes a huge impact on your mind and body? If so how much it sets you back?

    3- Will all those benefits of semen retention that you see online, will they be taken away or won't even be part of my life, because I ejaculate with sex only?

    I thought I'd feel like shit after having sex and O but honestly, I've been feeling good and pumped. I'm 33 years old btw.

    Hope I can get some answers on these.

    Thanks, everyone

    Cheers
     
  2. Grey is colourless

    Grey is colourless Fapstronaut

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    yes, it comes out of your body. its processed until highly refined by all your organs or most. Sperm is like 2% if remember correctly. The rest is mostly semen among others. That rest is super freaking constly on the body. Sperm is cheap no problem. Keep it and live healthily and you experience continuous growth. This is common sense. Just recently like this year they found evidence that lungs ACTUALLY produce blood cells; that cells can be programmed with sounds, as in entirely manipulated removing the need for surgery even with this technology!; and that bones have super tiny, countless tubes in them that allow for transportation of blood in between bones and other things. This entirely shutters the cartoon-ish view of science that is taught in normal level of educations to everyone; altough nothing that is paradigm shifting for scientists in the field...

    So we can see how little we know about the body and how hard it is to find out how it works. Mainly because our technology is still sheet, frankly speaking from a futuristic and idealistic point of view.

    But common sense remains. Youre giving some of your life to make a child. So ejaculation screws you up badly. And orgasm is a tremenduous effort if you watch your body...it's not just common sense, you feel this. Ideally a healthy male should be able to orgasm and ejaculate and still be 100% rock hard for like a few minutes with no problems. Not even going down to 70%, heck so many people are at their best at 50-70% and need to sleep after one ejaculation. That's not healthy, but it feels good :emoji_japanese_goblin::emoji_grin::emoji_eyes:

    Still celibacy is like natural. What if you are surpressed, and are basically isolated for years and have to fight as a slave/gladiator or animals killed your whole tribe and you are isolated in like south japan or something for years. Is that kind of celibacy supposed to be unhealthy? Only an imbecile could think so.

    - BUT, if you fantesize - stimulate yourself, are you really celibate?
     
  3. Yes, it does have impact. But less of a negative one. Because different levels of hormones are released during sex than masturbation. For example way more oxytocin is released during sex, which offsets some of the negative effects of dopomine.
    The benefits of semen retention comes from semen retention.
     
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  4. Oxyd_

    Oxyd_ Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the reply

    Then I’m fucked cause I haven’t been able to contain it... I know that it comes from retention but I thought if I was not masturbating 24/7 like I used to and only in sex that you could still have some of the benefits since I’m not wasting it via masturbation
     
  5. Sure, you can have some. Wasting less of it is still better than wasting all of it.
     
  6. Oxyd_

    Oxyd_ Fapstronaut

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    Let’s put this in percentages just so I can get it correctly

    When you ejaculate you lose 100% of whatever nutrients and life force and the semen production starts all over again? or it’s like a water tank where at each ejaculation you lose let’s say 30% and then your body takes 2 or 3 days to replenish those 30% ?
     
  7. Camelon

    Camelon Fapstronaut

    Try karezza
    It "ll flip ur life upside down
    We as recovering PMO addiction know very well change happened after semen retention, i used to shed about 7ml each day, really exhausting & draining my whole body
    It" s very simple bro
    THE BULL WHO GROWS FASTER & MORE MUSCULAR IS THE CASTRATED ONE...
    Try to hold it & explain to ur partner the benefits, pursue her, drag both of ur souls to KAREZZA & feel the eternal chage
     
  8. Well, kind of. Just like different men produce different amounts of testosterone neutrally (one has less body hair, lighter hair, other goes bald sooner, has higher sex drive, etc) in the same way we all carry around different amounts of chi and replenish it in different speeds. Same goes for other hormones apart from testosterone. Ejaculation is kind of a hormonal reset; it varies how much different people will be effected by the same amount of dopomine released, or how much dopomine will even be released. Also other hormones too. Basically what I'm saying is that you can't put exact percentage on it. It varies. How much each ejaculation will drain you depends from your genetics and also how much Chi energy work you have done. If you learn Qigong you will eventually be able to store more life force within your body so one ejaculation will not drain you as much, cos you overall tank will be bigger, recharge faster, etc.

    But no, you certainly don't lose 100% of everything just from one ejaculation. In my experience, the way I feel energy vise, one ejaculation sets me back about two weeks. As you get older it will probably be more, if you are younger it might be less. But yea, it is kind of like a water tank. But tanks are different sizes and replenish at different speeds. If it overflows you will just have a wet dream (assuming there are no leaks and blockages).
     
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