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Where to go from here?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Dom9292, Sep 11, 2018.

  1. Dom9292

    Dom9292 Fapstronaut

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    Hi, my name is Dom i'm 26. I've been addicted to porn for as long as i can remember. its been 3 years I've had a hard time getting it to work. ive been lucky enough to have a girl who understands and supports me in my time of need. On August 20 i came across a link describing nofap. Its been since that day i gave up porn for good! Its nice to know im not alone on this adventure. there is all kinds of people out there like me. I don't have any crazy urges and i haven't relapsed. Its been 23 days and counting since i last looked at porn or even touched myself. On the 2nd of September i had sex with my girlfriend and orgasamed (i didn't know at the time i shouldn't of done that). Ive been in a flat line since then and seems like it just died. my question is to anyone who can answer. Do i start my counter at zero? and how do i get out of this flat line? thanks for taking the time to read my story best of luck to everyone! and reach out to me if you need support!
     
  2. I know nothing about a flatline, but how is about your counter: it is only your choice. In my opinion healthy sex in relationship is good and I can't see reasons why to avoid it if only you don't treat it like a porn substitute.
     
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    Dom9292 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the feed back brother! let me ask you. Whats your opinion on rewiring. when should someone start the process?
     
  4. Personally my wife and I discussed what to do and I went with no P and no M.
    We do everything together. For us it has worked. But I know not every situation is the same.
    Best wishes for you both.
     
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  5. Dom9292

    Dom9292 Fapstronaut

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    thank you for your insight
     
  6. You're welcome. In my opinion rewiring occurs during whole reboot - the change in your behavior, mindset and life is as or even more crucial than getting used to physical stimulation during an intercourse. I think everything should be natural, so I would stop PMO and develop my healthy sexual life in the independent way. If you are in good relationship then you don't need to resign from that, but I don't think using escort or finding one-night stand will be good for recovery. Remember, that there is a big danger of making a substitute of porn from these things.
     

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