Why do blue pills work (in this case)

The addiction is lying to you, bro. It tells you that IT is the only thing that gives you any joy... but in truth it's pissing its pants laughing at you. It steals your joy and flops your dick. It slowly ruins sex and changes your vocabulary so that sex... real sex turns vanilla. Your soldier needs to be put through boot camp. Think of a soldier in training: Discipline and more discipline. This is your path, brother.

 

Viagra relaxed the smooth muscle all through your body and opens up blood flow to all the right places. It works even on psychological impotence because something in your mind, on an unconscious level, is trying to fence in some kind of twisted sexual expression, and it does this by tensing up the smooth muscle and restricting blood flow. In short the psychological provokes the physical.

Warning though: The psychological is much stronger than the physical. If you keep up with the addicted behaviour, mindset and personality, the blue pills will eventually stop working because your body will turn up the intensity on its attempt to control you. Your body is crashing you sexually because it fears for your life. It's saying "Stop"

Of course it feels hopeless. Sometimes we have to crash,,, to hit rock bottom until we realize that the suffering is caused by us. The impotence is caused by us too.

We all know the solution; sexual abstinence. You need to go as strict as you can. It might take ages. If you don't take the route of NoFap and all the restrictions necessary to starve the addiction, it will get worse and worse and worse. If you don't have a a girlfriend, resign yourself to a year of Monk mode. Completely forget women and sex for a year. Focus on a different part of your life. I mean what is a year if it means you can get your sex healthy and strong again?

About the embarrassment: You don't have to tell girls at all. It's none of their business. If you fall in love with a good girl then you should be able to tell her. If she is a useless bitch who laughs at you, well it means SHE is no good. My wife has been very supportive and together we have watched my erectile capacity improve.... and that's after fifteen years of complete impotence. I got to the stage in which NO medication worked. I only STARTED to see improvement after six or seven months but it got steadily better from there. I basically had to tame the sexual dragon within to do that. I joined Sexaholics Anonymous. I went o a psychologist. Didn't have to hide it from my wife. Just a girlfriend.... just a girl I was dating, didn't have to know a thing. Now I realize that I shouldn't have bothered with girlfriends at all. I should have focused on my health and my career for at least a year. I realised I was a slave.


So in short: Blue pills work on psychological ed.... until they stop working. Take decisive action now.

I wish you well

 

Pills worked for years with me, until they didn't.. why? I CONTINUED PMO the whole time, escalating genres and using it more and more. Coincidence? STOP NOW, DON'T LET IT GO FURTHER LIKE I DID AND MAKE IT 100 TIMES WORSE

 

Are you doing okay now?

 

I definitely had PIED and pills worked for me as well except when I was in the deepest part of the addiction. They also worked for a friend of mine who also had a porn problem. We are both 50 years old though maybe that's a factor. Eventually I eased off of them by getting a girlfriend, and getting comfortable with her and eventually didn't need them. Once I was comfortable it wasn't such a big worry if I couldn't get it up sometimes. My girlfriend was very understanding and didn't laugh or make me feel bad about it in any way. I bet most if not every single woman alive has been with guys who couldn't get it up. It happens and is part of life

 

Can I talk to you about this? I'm 32...

 

Sure