Why do guys lie about their penis size so much? LOL

First I must say that I define myself as bisexual because I can be aroused by men and women.
I watched gay porn and all kinds of porn that dudes do when they're alone and bored, including the kind that puts the human body at its limits in all aspects.
The game of size is something far away from getting pleasure, it is just the addiction taking over your actions to see how far you can push the limits to get the same chemical surge and get off by it.
Sex is an emotional thing, you cannot isolate that and have a healthy sexual encounter. If you play the size game, it is far more healthy for you to enjoy sex alone watching porn and using whatever toy you like than having to go out to find a guy big enough to get off. You're then looking for the exception, not the norm, and that puts you in the situation where you may accept things you won't normally accept in order to use and take advantage of your hard-to-find partner. You are just looking for a big toy attached to a human being and in extreme cases that can put you through lots of sexual risks we all know about and also violence and abuse.

I think a homosexual male is a person able to have a completely emotional relationship with another male. Beforehand, please excuse me for name-calling but, if you are now a "size queen", you need to rethink about what you are and what are you looking for in a sexual partner. The porn industry is objectifying women the same way they do with men. Think about the demographics of this forum alone, men are way easier to get into porn and fucked up things than women. You may be able to be reset to avoid treating women like just a hole but, as a gay man, you may have a hard time finding a sexual partner which is not already addicted and into the "hard stuff". It is way easier to "hook up" and do sexual things between two men and that's something you probably already know.

Just think about what you really want. Just "hook up" and have sex? You know what to do, you did it before.
If you want something more involved and emotional, be careful when looking and weed out the horny guys, get to know the other person, make it clear that you don't want sex right away. And that's how far my advice can go. The only sexual situation I have been with other men is group fapping and I'm ok with that. I really don't like penetration between two men. I think it's disrespectful and feminizing for one of them.

I hope I was able to clearly write what I had in mind in this post, of course I may be wrong or this may be badly redacted. As always, I'm open for discussion.

By the way, congrats on the NoFap streak!, you are an example to follow.

 

Very insight post. Thanks to you !

 

It is not a gay thing, it is a dude thing - just a bit of insecurity from when we went through puberty with our friends.

 

When i was a teenager I used to think I had a tiny penis. Turns out I've got a pretty normal one. That's how porn fucks up with your mind. Guys with a donkey dong and they also last a week. Not real, but man, that discourages you

 

Yep, it is. We wish we went through puberty 3times. We would've been taller...

 

They're probably joking around.

 

Wow

 

Secrets out, dudes check out other dudes junk to see what they are possibly competing against. Been the same since the beggining of time and only really became a little spoken subject since codpieces became 'uncool'

I wont lie, i do a tracecheck on most dudes i meet, wouldnt nessecarily state that it's 'gay' behaviour or do it super openly, but its how you cope with assessing a 'threat' per say from just another random average guy, the eyes never shut off with processing.

'Threatening' people can be your best friend or your worst enemies depending on who's more assertive and if it has any meaningful significance to both individuals on that field. Blokes get mighty insecure about rumours about junk particularly on both ends of the scale.