Fleshlight to avoid porn and masturbation ?

Do you have a current sexual partner? If so I would recommend cutting out all masturbation and only having her be your source of O. Don’t use your hand at all even during sex with her.

I suppose if you don’t have a partner it’s better than using your hand. But most pmo addicts find that porn and masturbation are so linked that if they MO at all they suffer relapses. I would recommended you go 90 day hard mode and then if not in a relationship try the flesh light.

I’m female but my ex fiancé had DE and death grip. I dealt with it for a long time any any MO outside of sex made him have DE.

 

You going to be proud to tell a woman you use a pocket pussy?

 

Funny how male sex toys are pathetic and embarrassing to own, while it seems quite common for a woman to own a vibrator/dildo.

 

I don’t think there’s anything at all shameful or odd about owning male sex toys (I own some myself), but I would advise against using it during your reboot. As others have said, any form of MO (and using a sex toy is still M) makes it harder to stick to your convictions, and can delay the process.

The toy will still be there when you’re done.

 

I've never owned a sex toy, but I imagine that they could heighten the experience. I just think that they are another substitute that could further demotivate one from seeking out real experiences

 

A Fleshlight will not help you.

 

I used to debate if a fleshlight would be ideal to replace M, but in the end I personally felt like its a bad kind of loophole.

I dont want to be ok with M, in any way, Im not anti M, whoever does it moderately without P, or even sex toys is ok, but me personally, I dont want to O without a human being there making it happen. I want real sexual interactions, not artificial stuff just to get off.

 

1) A guy owning a sex toy is kind of sad, it exemplifies your inability to find a real mate (unless you have one and she uses it on you, that would be cool). Imagine if someone like Leonidas said he used a pocket pussy, that would be beyond pathetic.

2) Don't try to fool yourself, using a fleshlight IS masturbation. It is even more pathetic than using your hand.

 

As a woman I could care less if a partner used it or if he moved

I also do not think owning sex toys by men is shameful or something to laugh at at all. People that feel same like that IMO tend to be the ones that turn to porn. You have to be comfortable with your sexuality, and open about it. Owning sex toys to me is perfectly normal. I am female and the only way I would care if the man had sex toys is if he preferred it to me or it took away from our sex life.

 

I don’t think it’s sad at all, but to each his or her own. It in no way means the man cannot get a girl. It just means that he has not found the right girl yet, and does not just sleep with any old girl that comes along. Because that’s what you are suggesting.

I agree it is masturbation though so it’s best to cut out during NoFap.

 

I think the men expressing this are just showing their own internal insecurities. Use of a sex toy by a man has nothing to do with being manly. If you are insecure in your manhood I could see how you might have a concern and project that concern onto others.

 

In my opinion, sex toys are awesome, but masturbation toys are pathetic beyond pathetic.

Like, if you use dildos, fleshlights, all kinds of stuff while having sex with a real partner, that is cool.

If you use all that stuff alone, that is pitiful.

Hope that clears it up. (Both guys and girls)

 

Fuck no! Porn and masturbation are a level above fucking a plastic toy. Cut it all out of your life for good.

 

Men are going to masturbate. Coming from a relationship with a man who had extreme death grip, I wish he would have used a toy. We are on NoFap, so the goals of people here are different. But if you are a young man who is just starting out if a flesh light can stop you from getting death grip.
Why is it pitiful? What makes it such?

 

All artificial sexual stimulation is pitiful, because it is artificial...fake. It is the easy way out, so to speak. And nobody deserves an ounce of respect for taking the easy way out in any scenario.

Imagine some guy or girl, alone, 11pm friday night, wacking off with a piece of glorified plastic to a VCR tape of people having sex. You reward yourself for something that requires insignificant effort. Buy some plastic to put on your genitals, buy some more plastic to project an image. Easy, done.

The underlying issue is rewarding yourself for putting in no effort. Not "self sexual discovery" or any other BS.

 

In terms of NoFap yes I get that it is an artificial stimulation. But the reality you seem to be missing is that men and women have sex drives, thats biological. A man or women could choose to you a sex toy for many very healthy and valid reasons. Their spouse is sick and unable to have sex with them. Their partner is out of town. They are single and dating but don’t want to go around having sex with any old person, they want to find the right one. Everyone is entitled to their opinion but your post is very judgey of others.