day 216. strong urge, maybe the hardest from the beginning but I learn to cohabit with them and it will flow away
For those of you that are stuck in relapse cycle, you might need intervention, someone to be there for you and support you. I think it's really important for you to have Accountability Partners, but if i'm gonna be honest most people are terrible APs (they don't check in very often, aren't open enough, etc), but i'm sure if you keep looking, you will find a good one. And it's important that you uplift and encourage your APs daily. And it's also equally important to BUILD FRIENDSHIPS with your AP. And lastly, share your advice, your thoughts, tell each other if you get urges and tell each other your secret deceitful or lustful thoughts and pray for each other that you may be healed. It's hard to share, very few of my past APs were willing to share, to be open, to give me any advice. I always try to share though, share my knowledge and feelings Day 141 troops, almost at that Day 150!
A harsh but possibly much needed message for those of you relapsed recently: "I can predict when some of you will relapse. You know how i know? Cause you speak and do the same stuff and don't do more! I don't really see sacrifice!! Where is the warrior inside of you? Why aren't you putting everything on the line to beat this? Why aren't you treating this addiction as if your life depends on it? I like you a lot, you may be a great guy. But damn, start changing the pathways of escape from porn addiction! Days without PMO should not decide your mood. What the hell is going on? Stand up and don't give up when it starts to be hard(i mean after one week or two). Start your journey and become who you want to be, no excuses, period."
I say Amen to that brother cuz me and you were right around the same numbers I hit de 152 today a no p no m har sex first time end of day 150, if you commit your sick owns you 1% owns 99% and buy true!!!!! Nofap or relapsers anonymous??
1.5 hours of the most amazing intimacy I've ever had in my life 3 minute orgasm for me several orgasms for my wife absolutely the most mind-blowing sex with ever had and that's just the beginning of a new Journey a new chapter in our life I have completely eliminated porn and far masterbation at this point also
So the reboot is done the rewiring continue masterbation will only happens mutually the true definition of intimacy for me and my wife now is he actually look inside each other's soul and no one's there it's not in relation to sex God bless everyone the story continues
well done mate, i'm envious. That's great i'm happy for you. i'm gonna have to wait at least a few more years for my time until i get married
Reach down pull your boots back on your a soldier let's get moving pick it up keep going learn and apply
The only time that you quit cuz you quit yourself so really if you can't make it through the simple challenge like this imagine how complicated is going to be with another human? And if you can't satisfy yourself how can you do that with anyone else? If you don't learn how to love and respect yourself how can you do that with someone else also? All these guys are starting to relapse is it cuz the sun is in your eye or something? Come on guys let's get it together you know God is watching us he's making sure that he wants the best out of it prove it to yourself and then show it show the man upstairs God bless
Hey Guys. I just created this account because i wanted to ask u something. So i had a hardcore no PMO streak for 9 days. Just an hour ago i got really horny and masturbated. It was incredible. I didnt have any thoughts about porn or some erotic things...i just pleasured myself. Is that considered as a mistake? Because i have heard that some people say masturbating isnt that bad if u dont watch porn or think of something erotic. Thanks for your answer