So I'm going through a reboot, and my question is: can i have sex on a reboot as long as i don't fantasize about fetishes or porn, just stay in the moment of intercourse? Im planning on doing no PM for a lifetime to have a healthy sex life PS: the main reason I am doing a reboot is from PIED -just looking for some clear answers, sorry if this question has been asked millions of times :s Thanks <3
Hey entername, Np for the million time asked answer it's always a pleasure to read such devotion ! I think the all nofap goal is about giving up this FFFFFFFFF porn addiction... ! If you can have sex, great !!! But try not to be the emotional zombie porn made us become... I know what I mean But beware of the chaser effect ! Stay brave bro
Hey I am entertaining similar ideas, but I have been doing this for two weeks and am 4/5 days into the seven day challenge. For now I am saying no sex my last reset was sex. I think I’d like to abstain PMO for a while then take stock. The sex was normal and pleasurable but I am aware of the chaser effect and other possible problems.
How about both? Check this out: Go for as many day as you can without sex, porn, and masturbation. If you have sex, write down how many days you went without sex, porn, and masturbation. Next, reset the counter and go for as many days as yo can without sex, porn, and masturbation... Who knows? Maybe you'll become the guy who will tell the fapstraunauts that you feel the effect on Nofap despite the sex you get.
thanks for all the great replies guys, yall put my mind at ease. So far im about 11 days into no PMO, usually feeling confident and sometimes feeling kinda agitated. Ill use hopefulistics suggestion and reset my counter next time i have sex Cheers guys <3
oh course, however if you can go more rounds then it doesn't matter. with my last girlfriend i didn't last all that long the first round but a 20 minute cool off and i was ready to go again PS this was when i wasn't practicing no PMO PPS also dont forget loads of foreplay, girls need this
well i usually always take care of the girl first, so use my tongue and fingers to get her close to orgasm and tease her. Ill to that for 15-20 minutes and if i have an erection by then, then ill go from there, if i dont have an erection then ill finish her off and wait longer