Usually I enjoy dreams a lot and i feel them very real. Not just wet dreams, all of them. Is usual for me to weak up and remember well the dream. Sometimes when I wake up I have a confort feeling about the dream. Is hard to explain but is just that, i feel really confortable. I guess this mast be a normal thing. I have start to stop masturbating a week ago for several reasons and, as is normal, I started to have sexual dreams. I didnt came at night, just a sexual dream. The thing is that i enjoy it and i thougth they were good. But reading on this forum a lot of people is trying to aboid them. why? I know that having them is normal but, Could induce them voluntary affect to my live in long term?.
Usually, wet dreams are involuntary or semi-conscious, but not fully voluntary. What makes yours voluntary? I don't think setting up the condition by PMO abstinence would count. And also, involuntary dreams never count either; they are quite natural to male biology and function. There's no culpability, nor any breaking of recovery in having them. However, I once knew someone who inordinately looked forward to sex dreams every night, as if he were always looking at a sexual TV guide and was deciding what would be on the dream screen that night. That's is a bit pathetic and somewhat an obsessive thinking about sex all the time, which in itself is counterproductive to recovery. But, I don't think that's what you're talking about either. .
Thank you for the answer. They are not voluntary now, but as i enjoy them I thougth about voluntary induce them by thinking about It before bed or something. But i thougth that It could lead to some kind of desorder, i guess I was rigth.
I would guess that if you tried to invite them through thoughts before bed that it wouldn't work. You would have already processed the narrative; so, the dreamwork wouldn't be necessary. Also, you are worse off by voluntarily inventing porn in your mind while awake - like edging, dopamine-spiking behavior. Get set for a new addiction. Congrats!
