Hey guys, are you all in the Legends Tier still going? @Tiger7 @AJ777 @sunn @Henryforward @hardcore_detox @ELITE2BE @Jay559 @The Unbeatable @Shmuck2020 @Allexx @HelloWorld!! @IceCreamMan501 @Stick it in your pants
Keep on going man. As i've already said its better to MO than to watch porn OR MO to porn. The ideal setting would be to have a partner so you can have sexual interactions which is more natural instead of Moing to your hand etc. But using MO when it gets tough is a good strategy. And congrats on day 85 without Porn. Im on day 8 now and do feel a bit clearer in mind.
Honestly I'm pretty serious about abstaining from M. just as much. I feel almost as shitty when I M. as I used to with relapses with P. But yeah you're right P. Is definitely worse. Thanks for the words and this challenge to help motivate a little more. I have no intentions to ever go back to porn. Im hoping this is it for good. Porn is literally the personification of evil. Keep fighting man dont give up
My suggestion would then be to start looking for a relationships, meaning start living. The plan is to replace PMO with a healthy lifestyle which includes having a partner whom you can have sex with. Humans are social and we feel the best when we form bonds, otherwise it may be easy to fall into the habits of PMO.
I would love nothing more than that; however I would like to save myself for marriage. I gave up searching / seeking out a relationship after being shot down in the past and having an account with pretty much every dating app in existence and never matching or connecting with anyone. One day, hopefully, theres someone out there.
You should try finding a women whom also want to wait till marriage also if its for religious reaosns. You will have to find her sooner or laters, and the sooner you start living the better. If its for religious reasons then go to the local church etc and become engaged in their activities so you can meet new people.
Update: Been 11 days since i watched porn. I have been focusing on also losing my weight and become lean/cut with help of keto diet which works awesome. 99% of loss weight is about diet and not about workout. I also only eat one meal a day on keto and i dont feel hungry at all during the day because my body has ajusted into using fat as energy, and thus i same plenty of time which i would otherwise spend craving food.
Hopefully everyone are doing well. Been two weeks since i watched porn and I had a dream today that i looked up porn and escorts to visit. Overall sexual. Its all good now, but overall i dont feel much urges during the days at the moment.
Hey guys. Been off here for a while. Haven't relapsed again, so only one time so far in 2021. The good thing about this streak is that it is not just from P but from PMO. Looking forward to not doing it again till april but first I have to get past my previous streak which is 35 days. Looking good so far.
Hey, sadly I failed so I would like to ask you to cross me out of Tier 1 But I would come back stronger in April!
Just checking in: I thought I need to be a little honest with you guys. This is not my first try - I have been failing all year long in 2020, and I feel like that was what prepared me to get serious about my problem. It feels weird - cutting out all cheap dopamine hits like instagram, 9gag and so on gave me a productivity boost. Because I either get bored and don't know what to do -> Then I just relax on the couch for an hour, or I do something productive or fun. Highly recommend kicking those cheap comfort suppliers out of your lives. I am still going strong - I don't have any other choice anyways. If you failed, dust yourself off, and carry on. Stay strong!
I want to announce that the challange is open for new participants when we start the Tier 2 next month 1st April. @Ghost in the Shell @Brahmacharya_UK @skybrowser @imandrew @Lionheart23 @REDLIPSTICKPOP @Titu @PegasusKid @Carter-Rabbit @dharana @SunnySigmund @skybrowser @BreakTheSpell @WalkingForward @Atcman1 @DaleEarnhartJr @ruso @theforgotten1423
How is everyone doing?? Not seeing many posts by those still in the challenge. Not trying to brag but I'm 100+ days porn free and about 15 days M. free. Feeling great! I hope you guys are all doing well and maintaining self-control. The longer I'm sober the more passionate I get about this. I have no desire to return to P. ever again - of course, I still keep my guard up. I do want to note that I had a really fucked up / vivid dream last night where I looked up porn and relapsed, and I "woke up" (dream within a dream type of thing) and I was feeling super shitty and felt super fucking guilty, and when I *actually* woke up, it took me a minute to realize it was all just a dream and I had NOT in fact looked up porn the night before. It was creepy as hell. I didn't get hardly any sleep. I vaguely remember being semi-awake / semi-conscious during the night and feeling really guilty for "relapsing". I'm convinced it was an attack from the devil, but I was able to push it out of my mind and had a good day at work helping and serving others. Kicking ass for the Lord one day at a time!!!