Do you like know any magic word I could tell myself so I can use focus and meditate at work while I’m horny
That’s a hard one. You’ll have to make something up yourself. Maybe a phrase. Something that confirms what you are doing and what you are trying to do
So times I feel dizzy when I’m on desk. I don’t like that. I know I need to work. My mind knows it needs to work. But I really don’t know why sometimes I can’t focus on work. Is it cos I smoke weed too? Tbh I love weed. I’ve tried cutting it tho
I would chug a lot of water all the time. And snack on something healthy. You could do stuff like anytime you get the urge. Just really try to out that intensity into what you’re doing. Like oh yeah I’m going to rip through this shit like a beast! And get vegetables near you anytime you get the urge eat a crunchy raw veggie and chew it all the way through. The sounds texture and taste might pull you back into the zone
I find myself peeking at sexual contents and it’s makes my p move towards erecting but I close the page when I notice my body changing.
I don’t know if that’s relapse yet but I’ll try not to do that again. I get bored and sometimes want to learn how to do so many things when making love but I know I don’t need those things now not till I’ve completed my 90 days. I’m trying guys. I’m trying. Done it before. I know I can do this again.
I’ve decided now I’m not going to peek at Porn or any sex related image. If I do this, I won’t M and I still won’t touch my genital, I’ll touch only when I want to pee and wash. Day 0 for me. my mind has been tricky lately
So today is Day 1 for me of no PMO hard mode for 10 days. I’m not going to be peeking at any sexual contents today so it won’t lead to the rest. And when I get those racing thoughts, I’ll make sure I exercise immediately till I feel pain. I’ll let you guys know how it goes.
Hi, congratulations, we have the same birthday. I wish you good luck, but I guess you challenge too much... it's soooooo hard not to touch oneself. Are you really really ready for not having any kind of sex? It might be a long way to master this. You may succeed but you'll have to learn very much...
I noticed I’ve been hard on myself trying to do all this challenges. So I’m going to go one at a time. Goal. no peeking of P or any sexual content.
Tbh at this stage of no PMO i feel normal. I don’t get too excited like I use to when I see girls or talk to this. I usually just want to orgasm then, like I could not wait for the next ejaculation(sex because I haven’t M for a while now and I don’t think about it, but I love sleeping with girls like I enjoy it). Since I haven’t PMO for 13days. When I’m around girls, I just flow with the vibe and not want everything , and when I say everything I mean everything including talks and eye contacts to result to O. I’m not going back guys. I did this before, I fell back into the trap and now I’m out of it. I’m still on NO PMO APRIL
How often do I think about sex after 14 days of no pmo? I haven’t taking note of that yet. But before this 14 days streak, man, I think of sleeping with someone almost everyday, sometimes 5 hours when I don’t want to (can you imagine, I don’t want to think about sex but I still find myself thinking about it for hours). It’s was a big brain problem. I couldn’t control it even when I want to focus on other stuffs, it’s still finds its way to crawl back in.
I’m going to congratulate myself for doing this for 15 days and still going. I really miss my girl tho. But I don’t want her I feel I’m taking advantage of her and using her to cure my sexual urge instead of trying to create a lovely scenario filled with affections.