The lies that kept me hooked to PMO were the following. Perhaps these will help others get free also: "I need sex/PMO to survive." "I need sex/PMO to be cool socially. I don't wanna be an outsider." "Everyone else is getting sex except me. I'm destined to be alone (Victim mindset). "I deserve sex/PMO because I'm a good person." (Entitlement. Oh the pride I had). "PMO is the only powerful way that I can comfort and nurture myself." "Other people do it so it's not a big deal." "I'm educating myself on sex (I never received a degree from P)." "It's not real sex, so it's safe!" "God created the human body so it's natural!" God forgives. (Very dangerous). "I don't watch "actual" P. It's cartoons/a fetish... They're wearing clothes! It's different for me." "My heart isn't lusting after these people/images, so it's ok." I'm not as bad as (insert X person)! "I'm not addicted, I only watch it a few times a year. I can stop anytime I want!" In reality, sex and P/MO never satisfy the human soul. The addiction is in the belief that it will eventually satisfy. "Perfect love casts out fear."
Those are all really good lies to expose. I know I struggled with 1 and 3 on your list for the longest time.
The worst one is I can start tomorrow or I still have a lot of time. Remember you might have very little time left on earth imagine dying while pmoing
Yeah, that's a good one. That marriage/relationship thing is a definite lie. A good marriage, neither does good sex get rid of any addiction, definitely not PMO. P actually brainwashes us to hate our S/O's because they can't compete with fake actors and images.
"I don't watch "actual" P. It's cartoons/a fetish... They're wearing clothes! It's different for me." whats this line supposed to mean
The lie that because cartoons/fetish P is not real or clothed people, that it is therefore safe to consume.
[QUOTE = "engelman, post: 3066551, member: 371976"] Bueno, tienes poco más de veinte años ... todavía tienes mucho tiempo. El problema es que ... con el tiempo ... las cosas malas tienden a empeorar. Por cierto, otra maldita mentira estúpida: - Las cosas mejorarán cuando encuentre a alguien especial y me case (¡terriblemente mal!). [/ CITA] Yo comencé una relación estable con este tipo de pensamiento ...x un tiempo deje el P, pero después volvía .... Me imagino que es un auto engaño más....