Lies That Kept Me Addicted To PMO:

The lies that kept me hooked to PMO were the following. Perhaps these will help others get free also:

• "I need sex/PMO to survive."
• "I need sex/PMO to be cool socially. I don't wanna be an outsider."
• "Everyone else is getting sex except me. I'm destined to be alone (Victim mindset).
• "I deserve sex/PMO because I'm a good person." (Entitlement. Oh the pride I had).
• "PMO is the only powerful way that I can comfort and nurture myself."
• "Other people do it so it's not a big deal."
• "I'm educating myself on sex (I never received a degree from P)."
• "It's not real sex, so it's safe!"
• "God created the human body so it's natural!"
• God forgives. (Very dangerous).
• "I don't watch "actual" P. It's cartoons/a fetish... They're wearing clothes! It's different for me."
• "My heart isn't lusting after these people/images, so it's ok."
• I'm not as bad as (insert X person)!
• "I'm not addicted, I only watch it a few times a year. I can stop anytime I want!"

In reality, sex and P/MO never satisfy the human soul. The addiction is in the belief that it will eventually satisfy.

"Perfect love casts out fear."

 

Those are all really good lies to expose. I know I struggled with 1 and 3 on your list for the longest time.

 

Yeah, that's a good one. That marriage/relationship thing is a definite lie.

A good marriage, neither does good sex get rid of any addiction, definitely not PMO. P actually brainwashes us to hate our S/O's because they can't compete with fake actors and images.

 

The lie that because cartoons/fetish P is not real or clothed people, that it is therefore safe to consume.