Thought I'd share some pep talks about dealing with virginity. The links below really helped me become less ashamed and more confident about my virginity and I hope they could help you too. After all, there's more to each and every one of us than sexual experience. Some of these links may have suggestive photos (not porn). If you want to avoid possible triggers, here are my notes from the links below which I shared in a previous post: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...d-and-still-a-virgin.73620/page-2#post-584105 http://thoughtcatalog.com/broseph-junior/2013/10/5-reasons-why-being-a-virgin-doesnt-suck/ http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2016/08/fear-of-virginity/ http://www.artofmanliness.com/2008/05/18/the-virtuous-life-chastity/ http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2015/07/guest-post-26-year-old-virgin/ http://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/07/01/how-delaying-intimacy-can-benefit-your-relationship/ http://www.thefrisky.com/2014-09-22/frisky-rant-leave-male-virgins-alone/ For my fellow Catholics: http://www.stceciliacalgary.com/reflectionsOnStPaul/StPaul_insert8.htm http://www.catholicnewsagency.com/r...ence-and-chastity/10-12-reasons-to-be-chaste/ http://focusmagazine.org/masculinity-and-virginity.php
Hey man, I'm a 27 yo virgin here. Struggled with PMO for about 12 years and working on it now. I've just stared a long distance relationship with a girl since February, and we've only physically seen each other twice. She's a girl I can definitely see myself being with, and with the grace of God, if I am blessed to marry her one day, I want to be physically devoted to her and at my best performance. I am excited at the fact at giving my virginity to her.
That's awesome Dave! I feel the same way. Don't worry about performance. I think most of the fun of making love is learning what she wants, learning about yourself, and learning about her parts. I know I'll be bumbling for sure but it's the only way I'll learn
Haha, yea @chastedude I know I'll be bumbling around too like a fish out of water, but that's what'll make it interesting and fun, as it should be. I get these strong urges where one day I really want to take care of her physically first and to give her a lot of pleasure, and that gets me excited. I want to provide for her in more ways than one. Yea dudes! Hang in there. There's a better future than PMO when we'll one day be united with our wives.
same here man! 23 year old virgin here, I know what you mean about the bumbling mainly because I'm a nervous guy. I think of equations more when I talk to women than I do while in math lol
Yeaaah! Can I join the club? My virginity is a gift for my future wife, symbolic of my dedication to her before our actual union. And I certainly don't care one slice about being 'inexperienced' for her. True love much more sexy than being a perfect performer. Learning and getting better at sex is going to be fun and bonding and fantastic
Awesome! I'm a 20 year old virgin, so not quite as long as some others in here. I totally plan on keeping myself until marriage. Because I wouldn't want my girl to have sex before me, so why should I do that to her??
Definitely @agentcarr20 @Rubidium. I think we are of course here for us, as we should be, but we are also honoring our future wives through abstaining and saving ourselves for her one day.
That is such a great mentality, I wish half the people I knew had morals as strong as you. I also wish you be in a loving relationship, almost like a cheesy romantic comedy, flowers, chocolates and poems. The meme was a great time for me too! I felt like looking at porn but just made the same face as the picture and said no.
Thanks WackinWolf !! I wish you to be in an awesome relationship too. You deserve nothing less than an epic, stunning, sexy and committed wife. I'm glad you enjoy the dank meme in my sig ^_^
Don't torture yourself for being a virgin. It'll happen when you are ready. If you force yourself to have sex when you are not yet ready, bad things can happen. I know that there is an insane amount of pressure out there for men to have sex. Try to ignore it. Just listen to your body and go with the flow.
I think I am lucky to have grown up around people who don't pressure me to have sex. Like, I have been pretty sheltered or something. Or maybe I just don't take any notice of it