I'm on day 8 of my reboot and I'm getting blue balls. My testicles are starting to become painful. Someone give me some advice on what to do and how to deal with it! Obviously I can't masturbate to relieve myself otherwise that defeats the point haha
the pain is only imaginated. turn the pain into joy - enjoy the power you have. there is no such thing like blue balls. otherwise, many male mammals would have pain all the time.
The pain will fade. Sitting in a warm bath could help but that may be too tempting to M. In most cases, you just have to be still as much as possible and keep you mind occupied until the pain subsides.
Ok well I know for a fact that's bullshit. You clearly haven't had a blowjob for an hour and not came. Your balls swell to the size of Golf balls and go literally blue. It's a real thing my Friend.
Hmm, carefully massaging maby in a warm bath/shower as well. Not to trigger arousal but relief. You gotta be very careful tho. Or just grind your teeth and let it pass, you won't die. Let's do this nofap 2017 to infinity!
Haha bro it was years ago. I nearly went to hospital because I thought I twisted my testicle it was so painful. 100% real. Friend told me to nut it out and that solved it instantly. Obviously not an option this time. The fact I didn't come from an hour of bj clearly showed my porn problem in the first place years
That is the most ridiculous thing I have hear you say yet! It is called vasocongestion - just look it up @SnowWhite! https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vasocongestion
I have heard this before. Generally though, the solution is to apply cold to the area. If you have low-slung dangly balls, you can let them sit in a cup of cold water; you can cover some ice and hold it next to or under your balls for a short time; you can have a cold shower and direct the water onto your dick and balls. All these work if you cannot simply wait as it will go.
Wouldn't it be much easier to masturbate then? I mean, this forum is about porn addiction, about social media addiction, about fleeing from reality and so on. Masturbating every 8 days doesn't seem to be me addictive. I looked up "Blue Balls" in Wikipedia and it says that not all males experience it. I never had it. But maybe it's true for others. So why not simply fap from time to time?
I think I said already more ridiculous things I know the feeling of "bursting balls" after 8 days, but I always turned it into a positive energy which was carrying me.
Ordinarily I would agree with you but I'm trying to reboot my system and regain sensitivity in my baby maker. One day in the future I'll fap occasionally but for now it's best to abstain
Yes, exactly @Health is key. This enquiry you made was in the context of rebooting which is much more effective free from all things sexual. If people want to jerk off for the rest of their life - whatever. But an unnecessary surge of dopamine when the whole reward circuit is fucked is counterproductive. For God's sake, @SnowWhite, have you not learned this fundamental fact after all this time!
Flatline is when you stop masturbating and watching porn your body after around a week you might lose your libido for a few weeks or months if really bad.
Depends how bad your addiction. The key is to rewire your brain to become aroused from affection rather than lust/your hand. If you're not watching porn you're not exposing yourself to your usual way of arousal hence the flatline. You need a real partner to strengthen your affection pathway. ds
Keep going my Friend! Porn addiction destroys your relationships. If you find you're penis is at all desensitized stop masturbating! On occasion it's ok if you don't have any sex related problems