Post published by TheNewDawn106

Hi guys,

I have a couple personal questions some of you may not feel comfortable answering on a public forum so feel free to PM me:

For those who have had sex with women first, how did you know it was time to act on exploring the same sex?

And those who had encounters with men first (like me), what made you know you were still into women?

I’m just feeling very conflicted right now and need some answers and perspectives.....


Dawn.
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McDreamer
Hey. I’ve been having the same confliction as you are. Thanks for asking it here
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fercho29 more_vert
fercho29
If you are really bisexual you like both things. This is like being in the ice cream parlor and needing to chose just chocolate or strawberry when you like both
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fercho29
You may have “seasons” when you enjoy one sex more rhan the other, and this may fluctuates. I had times when I was just interested in having sex with men, and with women was more a romantic connection
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fercho29
I just had a romantic connection with guys twice, all the rest was just raw sex, usually one night stand stories. This is what we usually see here
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fercho29
Eventually you will know more once you try. It may be that yiu just have gay fantasies due to so many years of watching gay porn. Or the opposite, that you are trapped in gay PMO because you do not dare to have sex with guys
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@McDreamer yeah dude this has been on my mind for some time. I’m still trying to understand that this isn’t a phase or bi-curiosity. I’m definitely sexually attracted to men. Not all men, just like women I have a type.
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@McDreamer and that sort of specification tells me that it’s more than just something that was brought on by PMO. Chances are even if I didn’t get hooked on P at such a young age I’d still be this way. It’s who I am.
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@fercho29 that’s a really interesting perspective, feeling trapped...like I’m too scared to try anything real again with guys so I resort to gay p.
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McDreamer
I’ve had emotional/romantic encounters with guys as well. So perhaps what you’re saying is true @TheNewDawn106 , how about we ride this no PMO wave and see what comes of it?
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TheNewDawn106
@McDreamer sounds good to me my dude. Best of luck