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Post published by ForMyWife23

I just joined today and I'm hoping that this group can be an additional support to me. I'm currently in the process of changing my heart. I fell back into old habits after returning from my mission almost a year ago. I was going in cycled of being good for 3 to 4 weeks, then slipping up. But, recently I started dating a fantastic girl, and we plan to get married in 2019. She is the love of my life and is a huge motivation to me. She has struggled with pornography and masturbation as well, so we are supporting each other in our efforts to be totally clean. My main question for discussion is, how do I keep my thoughts more clean? I love my girlfriend and I have no desire for anyone else, but I still go to dark places sometimes. I have tried to have hymns in my head, and keep myself busy with productive things, but what do you all do?
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Welcome! Everyone here is supportive; you can find a lot of help here.
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I'd think a good place to start is your foundation - what's your relationship with Heavenly Father? How do you evaluate yourself?
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