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Post published by SamPatel

Update : 2 days completed.
I would like to share few things, also debating few points raised in the community
1. It is not just porn. Banning porn won't solve a thing. In this era of digital connectivity - Youtube, Facebook, Whatsapp, Matrimonial sites :)P) - an ideological change is needed.
2. Peer pressure (my personal experience) - trying hard to create a relationship to appear normal amongst friends is a thing. Now, i would rather put all my energy on my career than pleasing girls, or trying to fantasize about future.
3. Our country is in deep shit, being an engineer i became aware only after delving into social sciences. Our energy should be dedicated to solving people's problems, be a LEADER. I perceive masturbating to a person who is acting 'cowardly'.
4. I know it is hard, just like kicking the smoking habit. But there are cases when people have realised how bad it is, and left it permanently.
5. Looking practically masturbating is bound to be abused. When you are not in real act of sex, there are no boundaries, there is no other person who can tell you that he/she is tired, there are no other partner to limit the number of times you DO IT. Multiple doctors claim masturbating is ok, but what they don't say is that it is bound to be abused. Hence leaving it completely, is the best advice.