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Post published by Cloudyboy009

Hello people today I join this community with my name in the air as Diego Nuñez.. I am 13 years old and I have been struggling with addiction for a while... I just relapsed and I need help.. I will post on a day to day basis but I need you help please nobody else can help me
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unhappy guy
You first has to block porn how do u get access to porn?
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Lancelot Striving47
Welcome to the fight young one! Your courage to join the fight at a young age shows just how brave you are. This braveness will come in handy and will make you victorious. I cannot say how many I have met here at nofap that are in their 30s-40s-50s-60s. You are ahead of most. Depending on how bad you are hooked, but I think your battle will be easier and quicker. I am 19 and would be more willing to guide you and give you some battle plans for this fight. Here are some questions and basic battle plans:
I assume you are a guy, but do need to know to give you the right advice?
What exactly are you addicted to? Porn? Masturbation?
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I am sorry, hit Enter by accident.
How often did you participate in these behaviors?
How old were you when you first started?
Have you tried quitting before and if so how many times?
Does anyone in your life know about your addiction?
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Lancelot Striving47
I know that discussing this stuff can seem awkward, but remember that it is the secrecy and embarrassment that poisons the tip of the sword and keeps us enslaved. I was too scared and embarrassed for so many years and it kept to my self, but it just ate away at me. You are braver though and you can do this. All these questions help us to know how to help you. Most of the questions you could just answer yes or no to.
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Lancelot Striving47
Here are some basic Battle plans:
Pray every morning and evening. I know this can seem corny, but it will absolutely help.
Go to confession and confess all your sins including these sexual ones if you haven't already.
Post here every day if you can. In the morning is best. Share how you are doing. Any urges and what your general feelings are on that day.
Make a list of the things that cause you to fall. We call them triggers. Example Boredom.
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Lancelot Striving47
Get a filter and accountability software. I recommend Covenant Eyes.
Only use your devices in public areas.
When you get an urge, go outside or doing something with someone else.
If you can't go outside and must be on the internet come here and ask for help.
Use the panic button for encouragement.
Start your day counter.
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Lancelot Striving47
These are some starters, but there are many more ways to better your strategies of winning this war. Remember that this is not a single battle, but a war of many battles. You are brave an courageous and you will be victorious! We will better be able to help once we know more about you. You may want to start a thread in the forums here. You can win this! Declare War on Porn Every Day!
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Sorry for the tiny bits, the program only allows a few characters. I have tagged some other amazing fighters here that I have met to help you. @Dadncharge50 , @Delirious 1 2018 , @balatula , @Thomas# , @lucentio , and there are many more. Let's help this young warrior!
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@Lancelot Striving47 has said it all! Christ has the power to topple any and every other throne and stronghold in your life. There is only room for one God! Well done for finding this community to help and support you in this. Your life is ahead of you, and dealing with this now is very very wise. God will bless you for your decision to finally put an end and quit porn. Amen!
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Cloudyboy009
I’m a male and I’m 13 years old and my addiction started at 11years old.. I suffer by watching porn and masturbating. Last year I used to participate in this activity like every two days but now I only do it once a week