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Post published by Sprinter123

Hi everyone. Wish i'd known this group was here wen i first started on Nofap, like a year ago. Sissy porn is one of my major triggers, and one of the main annoying 'fantasies' which crop up in my head when my brain's on low power mode. Good to know that i'm not the only one on here dealing with these kind of issues. I've just started a new reboot after a relapse that shook me off a long streak of no PMO. The culprit was that particular brand of porn and internet chat sites etc.
How should one deal with the issues surrounding sexual identity when dealing with this kind of problem? Sometimes i feel like i might be at least bi, but then the idea of sexual activities with another 'manly' man does not appeal to me. Often it is the curiosity about non-binary sexual activities which killed the no PMO streak for me, and the idea that i might be missing out on experiences which i would regret in later life. On the other hand, i don't think that i would be happy in any kind of real 'relationship' with another man. Has anyone else ever had these feelings of curiosity and conflicted sexual identitiy, and are there any good ways of dealing with them?
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Mckell
Coming to question your core sexual identity seems to be one of the most common injuries from this. You have to let your porn brain heal for awhile before you can count on it to correctly self reflect on this ( or anything, for that matter) Also, whatever you ultimately decide your sexuality is, it needs to be a healthy sexuality not twisted and controlled by porn. It will always damage,interfere and destroy any real, caring relationship you wish to enjoy.
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