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Post published by 3nkay
I want to share my update. My relapses have become more frequent lately, I can barely hold on for 2-3 days, although previously I could stay clean for 12-21 days.
I do not understand, as soon as I joined the nofap community, it became harder for me to control myself.
Sometimes just reading other fapstronauts posts starts trigerring me, and I start having thoughts about sp, and other sissy stuff. Finally I just can’t control myself and got a relapce.
It seems to me that the more I try to control myself, the more difficult it becomes to restrain myself from failures.
Sometimes I feel that I am losing something very significant, the only thing that brings me pleasure in this life - sp, M, AM, other sissy staff.
The only thing I understand is that I am in complete shit and I have huge problems.
Has anyone encountered similar problems? How do you stay strong?
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Becoming Jasmine
I was in a similar situation for awhile. I’d regularly relapse on day 1 or 2. One thing that’s helped me is to stop using the day counter. The
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Becoming Jasmine
idea being to stop thinking of this as temporary and just focus on making it one day at a time. There was before, when you used porn, and there is now, where you are free. Won’t work for everyone, but it’s worked really really well for me so far.
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