Recent content by lonercub

This question is for people who have been porn addicts for 20+ years. I've made significant efforts in the last few years. I do notice that I am less thrilled about the idea of watching porn. And even if I do watch porn, I can never binge like before. I feel disgust much sooner and just get...

Was wondering if the chad type or alpha male type actually have this PMO addiction problem.

Just wondering, want to get a consensus, do many of you suffer from either, weak, thin hair, dandruff, hair loss or greying of hair.

we are all here trying to do NoFap, therapy and supplements trying to get better. But what if porn addiction simply goes away on it's own as we get older. I mean it seems like most porn addicts are teenagers and maybe people in their 20s. By the time someone is in their 50s, probably they...

I've been making strong efforts to quit PMO. I am often filled with regret. I often compare myself to others. What's worse, could all my problems in life be attributed to PMO? Are people that have had amazing academic achievements, extra-curricular activities, great social circle and...

I've placed so much restrictions on my electronic devices and made it impossible to watch porn. I have noticed my interest in PMO is waning. How can we know this is happening because of our efforts or simply because we are getting older. What if most people with high libido are PMO addicts and...

What do you mean? Why do you find it more difficult when not at home?

One of the things that is truly pushing me close to the idea of suicide, is the idea that I will never be happy. On the one hand is the struggle to abstain from PMO, which I've actually done very well lately, and on the other, that terrible feeling of life passing by without having enjoyed it...

Has anyone else read these annoying posts, which talks about attraction between the sexes and how women value more a man's resourcefulness, his "empire" that he built, money, social status and life experience and for this reason can prefer a man in their their 30s or 40s? I mean this is a...

I've noticed trend lately so I don't know how true this is, or perhaps my conclusion bias is leading me to find these things. Many celebrities that are beautiful, have tons of money and fame seem to be going on with younger men. It also seems like the women, that care about their own physical...

I've been abstaining from O for a while now. However I've noticed when intimate with the girlfriend, somehow it feels more difficult. I seem to arrive to the edge faster compared to when I wasn't abstaining. Is this expected as part of the healing?

I've noticed friends or family that I've seen getting married had relationships early in life such as high school. These people tend to get married earlier too, some in their 20s. I think not having dated anyone in high school, somehow hindered my development. Ofcourse that had a knock on...

I feel like there is a deep problem in my life unfixable. This perpetuates my addiction. I feel that it is so bad I sometimes don't even want to be alive anymore. Everybody has things in their life that motivates them, moves them, excites them, brings hope to them, gives them a reason to wake...

I am starting feel that my interest in porn is imaginary. What I mean by this is that, I have the memory of having liked it in the past. So the memory of liking it is there. But really, I don't like it. Not anymore. Feels more like going through the motions than enjoying. It's funny because...

Thanks for your advice. I would disagree the points you quoted as being lies. Maybe you're projecting yourself or most other people in the world, but my case, is quite unusual how some of the things have happened. This is why I know my personal circumstance is feeding my addiction. Literally...