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    Doubt!!

    Edging is, from what I understand, engaging in activity specifically conducted to experience the rush associated with the place where orgasm will take you. Fapping can be part of edging. It's all part of the same thing, engaging in activity ultimately of no lasting benefit to you. Just my opinion.
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    Upskirting

    Listen to episode 17 of Porn Free Radio. It may help you when dealing with the public domain.
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    Getting Out Of Hand

    Listen to episode 17 of Porn Free Radio.
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    Why many Men are generally weak to Women ? ( Sexually Speaking )

    Contentious. I've come across lots of brave women in the world. The Handmaid's Tale, although fiction, illustrates how strong women can be. Smarter? Who starts wars?" Stronger? Fair one, but that's not using the brain, and it often leads to trouble.
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    Recovered from porn. Now addicted to sex chat.

    Hanibal to Agent Starling in Silence of the Lambs: 'You covet what you see'. You now covet what you listen to.
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    Recovered from porn. Now addicted to sex chat.

    You're not recovered from porn. It is only in a different form. Other forms are sexual thoughts, ogling women in public, seeking out imagery on the Web etc. You have just replaced actual porn with a substitute.
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    How bad are sexual thoughts for rebooting?

    I don't agree with this. I can do without porn but I can still mess things up by having sexual thoughts. Past partners can be a particular problem - they can be my passport to O in a few minutes. So what do I do? Replace thoughts of them with pension planning... mental maths to think of...
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    Feeling suicidal

    The reason to carry on living is that you are actually (although you may not think so right now), an amazing living being. If an alien was to look at you as an example of our species, they would be in AWE of your complexity, your ability to regulate fuel intake, maintain efficiency (fitness)...
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    Masturbation is indeed harmful

    I am 57 and have been addicted to masturbating for 45 years. My conclusion is…..yes it really skews you emotionally and socially. It may not screw you physically, e.g. your manhood is taking a real hammering (16,000 times at least for me), but it can take it. The damage is more to your whole...
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    Nocturnal emission/wet dream. Let's make a list of what increase the frequency.

    This is a helpful thread in my quest to put sexual thoughts out of my head. For example, I am on here this morning instead of PMO which was my usual habit. Thank you for the tip about blocking any fantasy images that come in head (past relationships). It is time to put those to bed instead of...
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    The roles are switched and therefore I'm addicted to not-fapping

    Hello Stichting, I read your post with great interest. It is my mission to clean myself of sexual thoughts when out in public. I am fascinated with how you have managed to turn sexual thoughts into non-sexual thoughts by turning negative energy into positive energy. This is a very impressive...
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    What kinds of exercises can I do every day from home to try and lose weight?

    If your body can take it, this is so true. If you've not run before, try this: download a running app (e.g.couch to 5k) with a built in athlete on audio who talks you through each days run, a pair of wireless headphones, an arm strap for your smartphone, and you're good to go! Remember to...
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    Why Are You Doing NoFap?

    Sick and tired of this secret life. I want to re-engage fully with my wife and get my sex life back. I was on a slippery slope of looking at real women as a collection of body parts when out in public and I was normalising my behaviour. I never used to be like this. I want to claim my life...
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    A Message to INTJs Struggling With PMO Addiction

    A very worthwhile thread. I have a great interest and believe in the worth of MBTI, and have seen the benefit of type dynamics when applied to solve problems involving moderate or extreme stress.
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    NoFap Abbreviations/Glossary of Terms

    Thank you Palindromo!
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