ok so recently a transgender hit me up on snapchat, long story short, he wants to f*** me. Now after seeing pics of him, no homo, he's kinda attractive with the whole costume on like makeup, wig, and clothes. I think he even got a boob job. Well something about me personal, is I have got my d*** sucked before by a guy, not my proudest moment. Anyway last night around 1am me and this trans are messaging and I said I don't want to f***, he offered to just suck my d***. And it intrigued me because the wig would be covering his face, and it would seem like a girl. Well I ended the conversation, and next thing I know I go on Pornhub and go to the trans section. I have never seen a trans video. After about 40 seconds of browsing I was horrified lol. These guys look just like girls... just with a penis. It was super weird and I really regret even searching it up. Now that it's morning, I have a much clearer mindset and will for sure not go over to see the guy but at night temptations were different. Has anyone got with a trans before? Did it feel different? Should I have not even entertained the conversation?
But i never fucked one , i got was joy of rejecting by saying the only problem was that they have a D , i even PMoed alot on them because some looked like really hot women ! And i got addicted to that now im on day 13 , trying to get rid of that shit , your post trigged me and i gotted some urges but im fine now ahhah
So here's my take on it Miggy. If your goal is to abstain from Porn and Masturbation and this triggered you to indulge in something you are trying to abstain from then whatever is going on is not helping you. As far as whether or not to enter into a sexual relationship with a trans that's up to your own conscience. If it were a natural woman would you be conflicted? I don't know what your priorities are or what your ethical convictions are on sexuality so as far as how to council you on whether or not you should well only you can answer that. The fact that you are here and claimed to have relapsed says to me that you are trying to clean something up. Are you rebooting? if so then my advice is to avoid any and all sexual anything.
Yeah it's getting insanely hard to tell the difference these days. Also, do yourself a favor and forget what you saw, because that's a rabbit hole you probably don't want to go down. I'm personally not bothered anymore by the fact that I like trans women - I think it's normal. But the porn won't make anything better. Same but it's an honest question so I don't blame OP.
Im also not blaming him, its fine , i only blame Warlord Gnawdwell for trying all time to fuck my mind , he and Orned Rat , but that wont happen again nonononono Im mighty yesyesyesyesyes im Queekkkk
I just never understood the mystique around transgenders. They're biological males like you and I.... Someone's son.... idk. It's just weird to me. Not even intriguing. Just weird. My theory is that it could be that some men have a fixation on the male penis, but they like the female form... so... it's the best of both worlds for them? Idk. Penises are just so male. At that point you might as well just watch some gay porn, because at the end of the day it is gay porn (two biological men engaging in sexual acts with one other) it's just masquerading as something else. It's very confusing to me why someone would want to see a penis on a woman. The idea actually weirds me out on such a deep level. Back in my pmo days If I comeme across trans porn I would lose my boner instantly because my head would be like:
Ok? Are you asking for an explanation or did you just want to let everyone know that you think it's weird?
First thing bro: you need a trigger warning on that post. second, there isn’t anything wrong with being attracted to trans people. Attraction exists in many forms. A strange question: is it different? Different from what? Being with a girl? Matter of perspective really. Part of the allure may be that is different but not. Was it different with a MN during the time you mentioned? if you should/shouldn’t “entertain the conversation” depends on you. We’re you doing it b/c you were attracted to this person and aroused or it’s just simply a P-sub?
I think it is the duality of transgenders—men with female traits that make them attractive to many. If you are attracted to men and women—you get both in one package. While they may be “not normal” biologically speaking (they’re dudes at the end of the day) they appeal to many b/c they are different.
Look buddy. This right here is a small choice but it has such a impact on you. If you are going to be addicted for the next 5 years or just for the next year. Also read up some entries on NoFap from people who "gave it a try".
I'm not going to get into the whole transgender debate, but you clearly think of this person as a man. You use male terms to describe this person. If you want to sleep with someone you've identified as a man, okay, but you said you weren't proud of a sexual interaction with a man in the past. Not making a judgement but your perception of this person and how that makes you feel is worth considering.